do you think that love is hard to keep?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
Portugal
October 4, 2010 11:02am CST
hi guys^^ do you think that love is hard to keep?^^ about me i think that it is hard to keep^^ bcs if we dont care always and show love and be there for person always you can lose the person you love. we all need to feel that other person loves us or our love feelings start to decrease and even can disappear. so i think is easy to keep if we love and show it everyday constantly^^ what about you guys?^^ please share your opinions^^ 
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@mrscallands22 (2852)
• United States
4 Oct 10
Love is hard, period. But if it meant to be... it will be. If it is in God's will. His will be done. It has been trying with me and my husband, but there is NOTHING and I mean absolutely NOTHING that will keep me from him.
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@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
4 Oct 10
aw thats too cute that nothing can put you apart from your hubby^^ im too happy for you^^ is good to see that you both love each other so much^^ and yes all relations have their complications but if the love is true it can surpass anything^^ is like you say if is meant to be it be^^ wish that your bf loves you as much as you love him^^ wish it lasts forever^^
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@mrscallands22 (2852)
• United States
6 Oct 10
Thanks so much!!... I love so much... much more than he realizes...
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
ahah thats cute^^ im happy that you love him so much^^ so you must show him that always^^ im sure he will be too happy^^ also maybe he loves you so much that you cant realize it too^^ thats a true love so im sure he feels the same^^ so you are a sweety couple ahah^^ im too too happy for you^^ your bf is lucky to have you^^ and you are also to have him^^
@jmayangcoF (279)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
For me..
yes ,, it is so hard to keep cause as what i experience that i am not in good to hold as best relationship.. and i am not too strong enough to take it off,
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@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
but is not your fault^^ you try to love your bfs right? but maybe relationships fail^^ and is not bcs of you^^ if you are not too strong well i think you are^^ bcs you had bfs before and always could move on^^ so for sure you are strong^^ and dont be sad^^ you will find a guy that will love you much^^ and will be too happy^^ just wait^^ and dont think bad about yourself^^
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
4 Oct 10
Loving someone and being loved by someone can be complex. So many feelings and emotions can come into play. If you are faithful and committed to each other, keeping the love alive is so much easier to do. if you have to try too hard to hang on to love, it may not be as true as you thought.1 person likes this
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
4 Oct 10
yes you mean that love happens naturally^^ yes i know we cant just always try hard to make that work. i totally understand what you mean. anyway my bf i know he really loves me and would do anything for me^^ but we are far so sometimes is complicated. anyway i will do everything just to be with him^^ he is the most important thing for me^^ i dont want be without him^^
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@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
Love isn't hard to keep. It's the relationship that's hard to keep. When you find that love is hard to keep then It's better to let the person go. It means you're just forcing yourself to love that someone.
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@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
4 Oct 10
yes thats what i meant^^ about let person go yes sure if the person doesnt love you enough is the best. i understand what you mean. and yes love has to happen and not choose it. about me i wouldnt force myself to a guy. if he loves me sure if not he can go. i belive that in love we dont need to ask nothing bcs we receive it without ask it^^ love is just like that^^
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@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
4 Oct 10
Well Love is not a thing to keep, sweet heart, Its a plaesent feeling to feel,Showing love is different thing and Showing over love or excessive love is much more different thing.In your case you show excessive love, thats why u get hurt everytime. control your self
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
4 Oct 10
yes love is to feel sure^^ you are right maybe i show it too much but is just my personality i cant avoid it^^ besides my bf loves me the way i am^^ and i love to show it much to him^^ i dont think he will leave me^^ bcs he really seems to love me too much^^ he even said dont come you to see me^^ i go to see you^^ so thats a big proof that he really loves me^^
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@vbamantilloF (42)
• Philippines
8 Oct 10
Love is hard to keep- that's true!. .If you will not show love to the person It will just kill you.
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
if dont know will kill yes^^ even one day without talk with my bf is sad to me. i wish we can always talk^^ at least everyday for like 3 hours i would be happy^^ my bf is very important to me^^ and we are far already so if dont talk everyday even worse^^ anyway i know he loves me^^ so i will wait till he has much time for me^^ love is trust also^^
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
5 Oct 10
Yes I think love is very hard to keep. Because you don’t know when your love leaves you forever. Because here are many person who always take love as their game. But I think love is not a game it is a true feelings of our heart. So it is not good when you love someone and after some days you left your love. it is a very bad things. I think in love a person trust on other person. And when this trust hurts then they breakup their love. What is this?
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
yes is true^^ is hard to know if your loved one will leave soon or not. but sure you need to trust. yes many people take love as a game sadly^^ and sure love is about true feelings^^ and is not good to say i love you and then leave suddenly. that can hurt the person. if trust is broken can break a relation yes. love is hard to keep but is easy too^^
@MJNMendezabalC (63)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
.....for me I don't want to keep my love for the person that I'd love because maybe he/she might think that I'm not proud of him or I'm ashamed of to be with him..so it's better not to keep your love because it might lose you!:P
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
ahah i meant like dont lose him^^ like care much and show it^^ thats what i meant by keep and not really be his owner ahah^^ anyway im sure he wouldnt think you are not proud of him or are ashamed to be with him^^ thats what my ex always thought and was so wrong. but destroyed my feelings for him bcs of that. and about the bf loses you only if doesnt know how to care for you enough^^
@olisondraF (49)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
yes,,. maybe , cause for me is love is being process before you can feel love to that person,.,.,.,.,and that's we called a long term process,.,.,. and love is not easy to fall in love,.,.,
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
yes love is a long process^^ and is not easy to fall yes^^ we can have like some feelings but it grows and grows slowly till love^^ thats true^^ and if you dont care enough when find it you can lose it. love is a feeling that must be remembered everyday^^ need say that guy how special he is everyday^^ i always do that to my bf^^ everyday^^
@rdramirezC (240)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
love is hard to keep..
It may stay the same but there's a possibility for it to change..
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
yes is true^^ and sure it can change if you dont care enough^^ and stays the same if you always care much and show it^^ that way person has no reason to stop love you^^ but if you dont care person can think well doesnt love me and start to forget you. it all depends of how people are^^ if you are caring and sweet noone has reason to leave you^^
@onlywan (182)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
Love is hard to keep because people get bored. that is why even if a guy has a very beautiful girlfriend, he still looks for other girls and that is what i hate most. i think that before we court or say yes to anyone, we should think a million times.
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
thats cute the way you think^^ yes sometimes people get bored^^ like guys that start to look to other girls is right. and you are right in hating it. thats a disrespect to their gfs. so im happy you are not like that^^ and sure before court or say yes need to be sure that love that girl and wont cheat or look to others^^ you are very right^^ i like your answer^^ you are a sweet guy^^ very sweet^^
@wollivierre (688)
• United States
5 Oct 10
yes and no yes its hard to keep it requires you to talk to the person and be there when you can. no because you should want to do these things. so i guess its just how you look at it
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
yes i think is easy at same time^^ bcs if you love is not a sacrifice to be there and talk with the person anytime^^ and sure we must want to care and listen to person and be there always^^ i just mean that sometimes is hard bcs is hard to know if other person doesnt look to others. and if just love you. thats what i also meant^^ sometimes people are taken as granted and dont receive much care.
