how did you fall in love with your actual bf/gf?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
Portugal
October 4, 2010 2:06pm CST
hi guys^^ how did you fall in love with your actual bf/gf?^^ about me i fell bcs he was so sweet and so caring^^ and we didnt meet near yet bcs none of us has enough money to go see each other^^ we live very far. but i love him and he is everything to me^^ i just want go meet him very soon^^ i would do all for him^^ so im working hard here^^ and wanted find other job too^^ what about you guys? how you found your lover?^^ and how you fell?^^ please share^^ 
10 responses
@iskabeybs (48)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
in my situation, i LIKED my current boyfriend even before i met him. we were like phonepals, first. he was such a big head. he kept on telling me that he was smart and better than other guys. he wasnt saying it to please me. he just wanted to say it. and it made me laugh. i think it's why i LIKED him. i liked him even more when i first saw him :) he was so HANDSOME :) yes, i admit it :) but i didnt fall inlove yet :)) i fell inlove with him after saying "yes" to him :)) when we were officially dating already :)) i just felt that its already LOVE. and not just LIKE :)
@iskabeybs (48)
• Philippines
12 Oct 10
yep! you're right! :D a guy that could make a girl laugh is what makes her fall for him ;D
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
26 Oct 10
ahah yes thats true^^ i also love guys that can make me laugh^^ my bf makes me laugh too but i didnt fall for him bcs of that^^ i fell for him bcs he is so sweet, so honest with his feelings^^ he doesnt do things to impress me you know^^ just we are very far and i wish we could meet soon^^ anyway my ex i fell for him bcs he made me laugh and we talked for hours ^^ and he sang to me also^^ so yes a guy that makes me laugh can make me fall ahah^^ but now i have my bf and i dont plan to leave him^^
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
5 Oct 10
aw phonepals thats too cute^^ ahah is cute that he said he was better than other guys he seems like a funny person^^ a guy that makes us laugh always is the best guy for a girl^^ that way you never feel bothered with him^^ is great that you liked him even more when meet near sure^^ and im happy that now you love him^^ im sure he loves you much too^^ thanks for share your cutie story with me^^
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
4 Oct 10
as I said I don';t love my boyfriend, but another guy. i don't know I was suspicous in what concernes him a first, but he had a special way to gain my thrust. he was sexy, funny, a lil pervert ( in a good way), tricky:D and he made me love him more than I could ever imagine.that's why I can;t forget him right now :(
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
5 Oct 10
yes i understand^^ thats cute what you love about him^^ but if you didnt forget him you should talk with him^^ you must really before other girl comes in the way and then will not be so easy. talk with your bf and break up. doesnt make sense to be with a boy and love other one. your bf will be hurt and he doesnt deserve that. talk with your ex and solve things. or he be with you or you forget him but think about him always cant be or you be unhappy. talk with him^^
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
5 Oct 10
but you said in other discussion that you didnt say you loved him often. that was him always showing his feelings. so maybe he is waiting you to go talk with him now and say how you feel^^ did you think that maybe thats why he didnt say nothing for two weeks? to see if you really care for him? bcs is not just actions that count words count also and maybe he felt you didnt love him enough bcs you didnt tell it often. anyway you should still talk with him anyway to know if he still loves you or not or your life will always be like this. cant move on. so to move on or not you need to know. and only way to know is be honest with him and say you still love him and if he feels the same way.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
5 Oct 10
it's easy to say but hard to do. it seems normal to me that he would look for me ifhe wants someting serious, but for the last 2 weeks he didn;t say hello at least. so why should I look for him? what's the point in doing that?
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
As far as I know we meet and we became friends then later we fall inlove and until now we feel the same. I really wanted to be with him always and I care for him. I love him that is all I know and the feelings still. Nothing has change.. 
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
5 Oct 10
aw thats cute that you met and became friends and later fell in love^^ and is good that you still feel the same for each other^^ is good to know that you want to be with him always and care for him so much^^ so maybe it will last forever^^ it seems that the love between you and him is very strong so thats great^^ wish you be always happy^^
@mustafarox (453)
• India
5 Oct 10
well it was my first day in the college and I entered my class there are chairs in the class on which only two can sit and there was only one chair left for me that was next to my girlfriend so then after that we became good friends and then we fell in love with each other..
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
5 Oct 10
thats cute^^ a chair near your gf ahah was like destiny wanted you guys together^^ is great that you started to be good friends and then fell in love^^ and still are in love right now^^ thats awesome^^ and it seems it will last for too long bcs for what you told me before she is crazy about you ahah and you also seem to love her so much too^^ thats too cute^^
@MNGadiana_C (4)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
Me and my Girlfriend loves each other even though we are apart just like the to of you. I work harder to gain money so that i can visit her by Christmas and vacation time. We have already celebrated our 1st anniversary last December 13 and hopefully in this coming December we can celebrate our 2nd anniversary. she's my everything my world revolves around her i cant live without her. and she told me in that way too. and hopefully we stay together forever and always until the day we die.
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
5 Oct 10
your story is like mine?^^ thats too sweet^^ but so sad that you didnt meet her near yet after a year almost 2 years actually^^ im so happy that you will finally meet her near you^^ i just wish that you can be very happy with her^^ is so cute to see a boy saying he loves his gf so much^^ i just wish my bf could say the same ^^ im sure you can be together till day you die^^ thanks so much for your cutie answer^^ makes me happy really^^
@valeria22 (5)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
hmm.. i met mine when we were in college. we never were together nor spoke a lot back then. only after we both graduated, that we started seeing each other and became a couple. I guess it just developed gradually. not sure what i fell for.
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
5 Oct 10
you met him in college but just after college you met better and started to be in love?^^ thats cute^^ so was he sweet to you?^^ and make many romantic moves to approach you?^^ i wish so^^ i like when boys are so sweet and cute with girls^^ when they do everything for them to fall for them^^ just lets wish that even after have the girl he also continue making efforts^^ like some that after have the girl relax a bit and thats not good^^
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
I met my bf at school, we were college classmates and were not really friends. He was seated in front of me and when he looked back i was staring at him and said, what are you looking at? He smiled back and after that day he said he will befriend me or at least try. We never felt anything then, not until we had our duty together and immersion together. After all that get to know stage, we went out a few times and i should say that it was a group date since i really don't want to be alone with him yet :D After that we never thought that love has invaded our emotions already...
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
5 Oct 10
ahah you are so funny^^ he looked back at you and you asked what are you staring at? ahah i couldnt say that to a guy^^ so why i would feel to talk like that ahah^^ is good that he wanted to be best friends with you^^ and you started to go all out in a group of friends but then fell for each other thats cute^^ is a sweety story the one you have^^ thanks for share it with me^^
@Christinelle (396)
• Greece
4 Oct 10
We worked together and talked during work. Sometimes we went out with the other guys we worked with to several clubs and restaurants. I never expected anything would happen since I didn't like him much. And when something happened, I didn't expect it to last because he wasn't my type at all. But now we've been together for more than a year and it's nice. I still can't say I'm deeply in love but I certainly have feelings for him.
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
5 Oct 10
it happened without you expect it ahah^^ yes love takes time^^ and im happy that you have feelings for him now^^ he wasnt your type but turnt out to be ahah^^ about be deeply in love it can still happen^^ you are still together so as years pass by love will be stronger^^ you have feelings for him so means you love him so it can just grow more^^
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
5 Oct 10
im happy you answered it anyway^^ is good that you would fall for someone's beauty is not bad at all but that is not the best thing ^^ you might get hurt bcs sometimes we look at someone's face and seem sweet and then is stupid. i agree that beauty is subjective^^ thats true^^ but you should be careful to dont get hurt if you look much for someone face and body^^
@wollivierre (688)
• United States
5 Oct 10
for all of it was the same i fell in love with them because of there minds they all were smart and funny some i guess i just fead of what they felt to but my best friend is just as smart as me and she is the only person my age i can talk to with out wondering if what i say will be understood and it's the same for her.
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
5 Oct 10
thats good that you fell for them bcs they were smart and funny^^ and is great that your best friend understands you so much that you dont even have to explain nothing^^ she already see what you mean without much to say^^ and is great that she also feels the same with you^^ you both are in love with each other right? so go tell her that^^ is time to be more than friends now^^
