What will you feel if someone judges you unfairly?

I guess everyone has been judged unfairly in some ways. Sometimes, we might not even know it. I have one classmate in college who said a lot of awful things about all of us in the class. She tells these stuff to her "friends" whom she backbite afterward. These kind of people are craving for attention. They cannot bring attention to themselves probably because of the lack of physical attractiveness but have the gift of talking and they make use of it. These people may also be insecure that they bring out the negativities of another so as to feel better. Sometimes, these people just do not have anything better to do but see people get hurt like they are.

i usually get affected on those nothing-to-do people. however, as time passes, ive become mature enough to react to those commentators. usually, i dont mind them they can say whatever likewise i can do whatever. i dont let them and their comments affect me. there was this saying that goes: if people say something bad bout you, judge you as if they know you dont get affected. just think of this ---- DOGS do BARK if they dont know the person! Happy mylotting and God bless!^^

I experienced that last year. My good friend of mine judges me unfairly. It is hurts, but this is what he judged me. I try not to be affected but everytime I think of it I feel bad at him.

As one friend told me, we cannot really control others on how they see us, how they think of us, and how they say unto us. What we can control is ourselves. People are too fast in making a conclusive judgment but fails to analyze the situation. If I am judged unfairly, then I would feel sad because I believe that nobody is happy when they are judged unfairly. If that happens, I can just pray for those who judged me unfairly and it's God who will judge them for what they have done. Blessing to you!

people are entitled to their own opinion, however if someone judges me unfairly and expresses it to me in confidentiality, well, i will tell them my own version if they listen. If they will not give me chance to explain and insist on what they believe i have done, well, to "###" with them. i cannot help it if they are narrow-minded as to interpret something out of an ordinary or innocent action. i will not change to please them nor try to appease them by explaining to them. there are people who are just like that and if you will change who you are just to change their opinion or judgment of you, well, that would not be in my calendar, anytime. If we live by according to the rules of the judgment of other people, we would not have a happy life that's for sure.

If someone judge me unfairly, I may feel aggrieve at what they consider me as,but I won't dispute with them unless it is nessary to do so. A lot more time I would like to ignore them and show others the real me. I like to let the truth tell rather than be eager to clarify myself. But it does very tough process to my heart, so I prefer no one will misunderstand me.

Hmm, honestly, I don't really care what others think of me. We can't control what people think or say. Usually they'll see the bad things more than the goodness that we show. So it's better not to let that get to you. If a guy friend think I am flirting by talking, then he's sadly pathetic. He's not worth your time to be worry about.

I've been judged unfairly. I slapped him til he cried. I'm not proud of it but i know i'll regret it if i didn't do something like that. Sometimes, being physical is the only way to gain respect.

So be it. Since that's what they saw, we can't undo it. There's always this saying, "seeing is believing". So they are applying it to reality. If that saying is not true, why would judges trust the words of witness before sentencing one to jail or punishments? It's a matter of time before they understand the real us. If they claimed to be our friends, best friends of even loved ones, they should trust their faith in us and not via what they saw.

Hi Blue_Raine I think if we get in justice that in painful thing, and i think that's humane. But in reality we often see injustice around us.What may make, yes we should gracefully.