is your bf/gf afraid to lose you?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
Portugal
October 5, 2010 5:33pm CST
hi guys^^ is your bf/gf afraid to lose you?^^ about me i think my bf is a bit afraid to lose him^^ i guess if i broke up with him he would cry and drink. i dont know for sure but for the way he is with me im pretty sure he would. anyway i love him too much to lose him^^ i also couldnt stand if he left me. i need him too much^^ but i think that if we love we are always a bit afraid to lose person right?^^ what about you guys? is your bf/gf afraid to lose you guys?^^ please share^^ 
7 responses
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
so if your gf leaves you is ok? bcs she made the right decision? wouldnt you feel sad? even if is what makes her happy but would make you sad. anyway i see you mean you would move on^^ and find someone that cares really^^ well thats great that you wouldnt be too sad. maybe you accept things easier^^ or maybe dont love your gf much :(
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
sure i know that you wouldnt want to waste your life after a girl that doesnt want you^^ what i meant is that is good you would move on but wouldnt you feel sad? bcs the way you talked you said in a very easy way^^ like doesnt matter much if she leaves bcs you will find someone else. so was like your gf is not very very important to you. but i understand^^ you rather find a girl that loves you than being thinking about a girl that doesnt care^^ thats good^^
@Karunvig (714)
• India
9 Oct 10
hi dear.. may i want to tell u tht i luv my gf more thn ur bf loves me :P and u knw we take birth after beating 3 millions sperm so i dnt want to loose the opportunity and dont want to spoil the opportunity of the people who has beaten them all and then have taken the birth on this earth... let live all of them happy and i also want to liv happy so better should nt be a hurdle in her life.... love nt always mean tht we should cry and force to get to her ...
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
11 Oct 10
i dont know. he says he wants a job but is very hard to find. and i believe that but i wish he found one soon. he was busy bcs his family but these days i dont know. he seems more busy than usual. anyway you are pinay too^^ so you dont know any job he can do there in pinas? he lives in baguio city. i asked him about call center and he says that all places have people already. but call center usually always need people. if you knew would be a big help^^ we never met face to face marie :( only by cam. we talk since more than a year.
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
thats cute that your bf is afraid to lose you^^ that means he really loves you so much^^ thats so sweet^^ yes my bf is filipino^^ he lives in baguio city^^ we love each other much but lately he doesnt have much time for me :( also he is jobless right now :( i wish he could find something. even if doesnt earn much so we could save money together and meet very soon^^
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
9 Oct 10
Since my bf and me want to get married, and he wants to grow older with me, also he wants us to have kid and have life together forever, so he often says he doesn't want to lose me everytime we argue. But I understand him because I also equally don't want to lose him. We have been through so much in our relationship and we help each a lot to be strong, so we are very important to each other. We will be very upset and disappointed if we eventually will fall out, but if that is the fate then we ought to accept it. But so far, we always try and maintain our relationship so we don't easily lose it because of unnecessary argument, dissatisfaction, and disagreeing over something small.
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
thats cute that he is afraid to lose you^^ and you also^^ it means you love each other so much^^ and yes must not let small things destroy your relationship^^ is great that you help each other^^ and both care so much^^ i just wish that when i meet my bf near he also loves me so so much^^ you have a sweet relationship^^ i just wish my bf also be like that to me^^
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
5 Oct 10
yea if you love somebody you're afraid to lose him. I don't love my boyfriend that's why I don;t care really much if he tells me he leaves me, because I know he'll always call me and come back, cuz he loves me. I broke up with him 2 times, and he started crying, telling me that he loves me, that he thinks we are meant to be togetther and stuff like that...but I don't really believe that. about me, as I said I don;t really care about his presence or absence in my life:)
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
swissheart please leave him 
makes me sad the way you say for you is same if he is or not in your life. if he loves you leave him so he can be happy and forget you. why be with him if dont love him? you cant make him happy neither be happy also. care for his feelings. he really loves you so break up. dont be with a guy you dont love. will be bad for you and for him.
makes me sad the way you say for you is same if he is or not in your life. if he loves you leave him so he can be happy and forget you. why be with him if dont love him? you cant make him happy neither be happy also. care for his feelings. he really loves you so break up. dont be with a guy you dont love. will be bad for you and for him.
@Christinelle (396)
• Greece
5 Oct 10
I suppose he would feel bad if I left him but I don't think he's afraid of it, since he has no reason to be. I'm not afraid either, even though it would make me sad if it happened.
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
sure he would feel bad bcs loves you^^ and im happy he isnt afraid of it^^ means he trust you love him^^ and care for him^^ is good that you also are not afraid :) and that sure you would be sad bcs would lose guy you love :) it wont happen^^ you both love each other right?^^ and care so no reason to lose each other^^ it all will go happy and great^^
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
sure he would feel bad bcs loves you^^ and im happy he isnt afraid of it^^ means he trust you love him^^ and care for him^^ is good that you also are not afraid :) and that sure you would be sad bcs would lose guy you love :) it wont happen^^ you both love each other right?^^ and care so no reason to lose each other^^ it all will go happy and great^^
@wollivierre (688)
• United States
6 Oct 10
yes they have been i think but my best friend is for sure, she broke down cry cause she thought she would lose me. it was the first time i heard her cry
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
9 Oct 10
sure is normal if they were afraid to lose you^^ sorry that your friend started to cry so much^^ but is a good sign^^ that means that she cares for you^^ and loves you ^^ so is good that she cried bcs that way you saw that^^ anyway she doesnt need to worry bcs you like her so much that she wont lose you for sure^^ would you cry if lost her? i guess so^^
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
I sometimes feel he is, sometimes i don't feel that he is afraid to lose me. he does things that can be irritating and several times i tried to tell him about these he just never learns, or he never minds what i tell him. =( it makes me sad about this.. but most of the time i do feel he loves me very much and he says them too...
