how to be optimistic when you keep on looooosing!!!

October 5, 2010 7:14pm CST
in every aspect of life you keep falling on the dark side..still you hope for a better tomorrow, but positivity seems to fade through time.when all you ever did was to be worthy of the win.things you've planned and aspired seems to be out of hand and of reach.you keep on asking God for answers when all you have are questions! this may sound too dramatic but this is reality.I'm just thinking out loud.how could i be positive when i keep on failing in every important aspect of life.i'm still a believer though.i guess it pays to just wait and do something.
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@sender621 (14956)
• United States
6 Oct 10
Being optimistic when you are losing can be a challenge. You have to keep your goal or dream in mind. this can help to keep the optimism flowing when you think there is no hope.
6 Oct 10
that shadows prove a sunshine!!!as song goes on!my goal is to be happy and content with life...and with that i make sideline goals as i call it just to fulfill that main goal..the problem is with in those sideline goals i fail most of the time...though I'm not that bitter because i believe however low ill be, i could always look up and see hope,i don't want to add up my shortcoming by another failure,,to quit!
• Philippines
6 Oct 10
In the last phrase of your discussion, you mentioned about being patient or wait and do something. I believe that there are times that we fail in life, in many areas of life. However, I learned from a mylot friend that failure is just a temporary setback - quitting is permanent failure. From that statement, when I fail, I consider it as a learning experience. I don't like to quit. I like to rise up and try again. As the Bible says in Isaiah, "They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength. They shall mount up with wings as eagles. They shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint." Blessing will come your way, if you persist and keep on doing what is right.
6 Oct 10
its a learning experience for me,and yes quitting is a permanent failure..so instead of having my self another failure,ill just keep on hoping...thanks though that's uplifting. "blessing will come my way"..soon ,i know..
• United States
6 Oct 10
It gets harder and harder each time my friend. But then only hope really is to continue to have hope. No one or anything can expedite any ill feelings as the issues keep multiplying we continue to feel lower. So all you can do is have hope that the next day will better and try really hard to be positive. I have learned in life that without my faith I certainly could not go on. Although I can't be sure you are believe in prayer or not, which is okay too just have the hope. I say this with kind regards as I do not like to impose religion on anyone as it is a preference and one that some take offensive. So ardiebagz, please have hope and try really hard instill some positivity as well when all is bad and resolutions are out of reach hope is the only thing we can cling on at least for the moment.
6 Oct 10
thanks,appreciate it,you know what i do believe in God and i do have faith but the thing is that,may be I'm one of those who God has set to be on the darker side so a lot of people can see whats bright.it's a funny thought but it is a possibility.maybe its better this so if my morning comes i will appreciate it more..who knows...