how do people last their relationship for decades.?

me and my bf are not together not a month yet but he knows me since more than a year^^ and waited me till i accept him^^ even we live in different countries and i liked other guys he always waited^^ now im with him and we love each other much^^ im working hard here in mylot to go see him soon^^ we agreed to both save money^^ to make a relationship last for decades you need to always give care to that person and always show you love him^^ always be there to listen his problems, respect his points of view^^ argue sometimes is necessary too^^ that shows both care^^ like this a relationship can last if both do all for each other^^

There's no perfect relationship but if you put god in the center of your relationship it will definitely last. Of course there should also be love, trust and respect to each other. Me and my husband makes sure that we go to church every sunday with our kids because if you have faith in god you will also have faith in your partner.

Hi, I do believe a love and trust will make a relationship last forever. Only with that elements, both parties will stick together and stay together forever till they are old and see their grandchildren. How I wish I have the chance to see my grandchildren in future. Of course, for a relationship to stay stable, an argument can always happened,however, as long as both parties are willing to give and take,then problem can be solved.

i guess it's love, trust, and respect that help them settle for decades. =)

You must be compatible. give and take. Accept and forgive. love patience being loyal honest and so on. There is no perfect formula but its a destiny. Always pray..=)