relationship problem

Indonesia
October 7, 2010 9:06am CST
before i have a girlfriend which we get along each other. everything seems fine to us until our parents decided to put the end of our relationship because we are to in love each others. i really dont understand, i never do anything that will put her on problem. even i keep some of my money for the future. we promise to get married when we find its the time and mature. i dont know how to express my feelings. do i have to be sad or just let it go because it was my parents decision !? currently i`m 19 years old and a student of university. i`m working as a part-timer and save some of my money and act carefully. i dont want to be a bad son of my parent and i dont want to be a bad man either for her because of my decision to end our relationship because of both of our parents decision.
1 response
• India
7 Oct 10
i think every parents wont trust that age love , because at that age , its obvious to fall in love and might me immature , but if you truely got your desire for her ,and she too feel the same for you , try too have patience in your love , keep your faith in love , and dont often meet with her , juz be in touch i am sure 2 more years , you can be more mature to think next and even you and impress your parents too , to get your love back , so i say juz be with her only ,dont leave her and have touch with her in call for two years , i sure you can be successful in both a good son and lover too. mate
• Indonesia
7 Oct 10
this is what i always do these days, but somehow her parent might get know it and try to prevent her in contacting me, they always get mad everytime i tried to call her or meet her .. thank you my friend, i always trust in a fine way of solving problem