can u sacrifice your love for ur family?

@harry89 (2330)
India
October 8, 2010 11:37am CST
If you ever faces this situation where you need to choose between your family and your love, who will you choose? Your family : - with whom you spent most of your life which may cönsist of father, mother, brother, sister who always supported you when you needed them OR Love : - with whom you share all your secrets, wanna spend your life with that person and who needs you all the way through their life. Whom will you choose?
6 responses
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 Oct 10
I done this once in my life. My family had an arrange marriage for me,with someone that i don't love. At first i agree with them,but end up running away with the one i truly love. It was a desperate move,that hurts my family. But,i am thankful that after all what i've done,my family still there to understand me. Now,i still have the same relationship i had with my family,nothing changed at all. But,it's stronger than before.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
8 Oct 10
Well that means you preffered your love over your your family but thats ok as all is well that ends well. At the end it was your family who understood you and is still with you no matter what happens.. Thats called true family. Thanks for your response.
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 Oct 10
yes,i choose love over my family. I am so lucky to have a family that understands and embraces me always.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
9 Oct 10
@Mksgamon09: yes you are right in your answer. Most of us will choose our family rather than our love as our families are our lifetime partners as you said. Because there are the one with whom we have spent most of our life and we should also think about them. Thanks for your response.
silentcandle
@silentcandle (60)
• Malaysia
13 Oct 10
I will choose my family, because I believe I can live without the one I love but I can't live without my family. My family is where I put most of my love. There is something I believe in life, I believe lover are "outsider" whom may leave you when the so said "LOVE" is no longer around, for instant, "break up" or "divorce". However, family, no matter you like it or not, you can't leave them because of the blood connection.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
13 Oct 10
Yes, you are right love is temporary but family is for life. As you said that the lover can separate by breakup but the family is always with you because of the blood relation. I would also choose family over lover. Thanks for your response.
Ambitiouslyleiah
@Ambitiouslyleiah (591)
• United States
8 Oct 10
my love. I love my family but if they made me choose from them and my love I would take my love and it would be my familys loss. On the other hand if my love made me choose it might be different depending on why.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
8 Oct 10
Well, that's a confusing answer for me. Do you mean that who would ask you to make a chice, you will leave that person? Well that's based on the mentality of the person where he wants to go his family or love anyways thanks for your response.
mustafarox
@mustafarox (453)
• India
8 Oct 10
Well yes I can sacrifice my love for my family as my family loves me from when I was born and they love me in all conditions weather I am good weather I am bad weather I am good looking or not they don't care were as my lover care about these thing and I cannot sacrifice my so many years of relationship with my family for just 6 months love...
danielashaira
@danielashaira (86)
• Philippines
9 Oct 10
i choose my family over my love one. they are my life. i can`t live without them. they are my inspiration and my everything.
harry89
@harry89 (2330)
• India
9 Oct 10
Yes according to me that's a nice thing to do. If you really love your family and respect them a lot then you will definitely choose them as you are the part of the family... Thanks for your response.
blomst
@blomst (71)
• Malaysia
9 Oct 10
First of all, families should support each other in many ways. That is just how it should be. As for Love... well, it will eventually becomes your life,when destiny and choices prevails which sometimes does and sometimes don't.