Why do people think I can not

Thailand
October 10, 2010 4:44am CST
Somepeople before you start doing something. To ask questions in mind that I can do or not. I'm not sure why it's always. But some people are confident that they themselves do it.This means that how why do some people think differently to parallel.
4 responses
@ocikca (110)
• Indonesia
10 Oct 10
may be they want to make sure that you can do that. or maybe they only ask just for strings attached to show they care of you maybe they have a kindnes to help you if you really canot do that otherwise they need ykour help to do it or they just want to know it with no meaning at all
@key2write (493)
• India
10 Oct 10
People who afraid of failure say they don't have the capability to do, they are shy about failure, they don't have any motivational strength, they don't believe in hard working and so on. Those who have confidence, also have the capacity to accept failure. They know the meaning of hard working, they are motivated by others. They are educated in terms of experience and know the power of dedication. Thus, we see differences in them.
@Simon1223 (903)
• China
10 Oct 10
Many people think that they could not do something before doing it for they lack self-confidence. The reasons are various. Some people lack self-confidence because they've experienced quite a lot of failure in the past due to different reasons. Then they worry that they may experience another failure. Others lack confidence because the aims they set in advance are too high to achieve. Actually they have the ability to do the work, but their own aims make them doubt their ability.
• China
10 Oct 10
maybe they can not do it .but you can .so we must trust ourselves.