Should we courtship before marriage?

@rifnee (1713)
Indonesia
October 11, 2010 5:05am CST
if not, what tips-tricks? Everyone has a different principle, then ...., what you thinking about it, and why? Is it important for courtship before marriage? What is wrong if people get married without a dating? thanks
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8 responses
• Indonesia
16 Nov 10
if you ask me before marriage should be going out first because it is extremely useful to know each other and learn from families who will be our pendaming
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
8 Nov 10
Marriage is a bond and a union that should not be entered into lightly. Courtship before marriage is both romantic and wise. it can give your relationship together the magic it needs for the future.
@emarie (5442)
• United States
11 Oct 10
I think courting is important in all relationships. It's a healthy start to the relationship and it helps you to get to know your other half as well. I think proper courtship should be implemented more now because people just 'hook up' for no reason now and there are so many one night stands that it's getting ridiculous.
• Nigeria
25 Oct 10
what if this guy has kids outside and you dont know?...what if he beats up women and you dont know....what if he is not a responsible guy and he pretends a lot?....these are some of the you will discover or get the tips when u court a guy...but going straight into a relationship like that?........good luck!
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
courting is getting to know each other. its hard to marry someone you dont know... girls should play hard to get and guys should make effort to win a ladys heart.
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
5 Nov 10
married without going out I think maybe once, because I had already spent itself, was married to people who do not even know I had my face has never caught the eye let alone smile, to this day and hopefully until the end of life will be all right all right,even more intimate., Many also I found couples who married without going out and to this day they get along just and harmonious
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
11 Oct 10
Courtship is important to a relationship. it helps the romance to develop and blossom. it stengthens your feelings for the one you love.
• Portugal
11 Oct 10
yes for sure courtship should be before marriage^^ so you are sure that you marry a guy that you love^^ if you marry before dating that guy you dont know how he is and if you will love him^^ imagine that you marry and then the guy is stupid or selfish? then you have to get divorced bcs if stay in marriage you will be unhappy. so for sure you should know the guy very well, date for some time^^ and both be in love with each other and just then marry^^ what matters is love^^ and not marry without it. we have time to marry dont need to rush and marry a guy that we dont know deeply^^ we must marry one that we are sure loves us so much and we also love him so much too^^