How do you do it?

October 11, 2010 9:21am CST
How do you manage your relationship matters concerning your partner. When a girl comes close to your guy how do you feel? how do you handle it even if they just cant stop talking to each other. How do you know there's nothing going on between them? Remember you can never know whats inside another persons head. What if all your warning signs are neglected. These questions normally threaten our relationships and I will like to know your view on how to handle them.
3 responses
• United States
11 Oct 10
I've never really had any issue with this. I'm not bothered by him talking to females and I've never felt threatened by other women for any reason. Well, there was this one girl who if I ever saw again, I would love to hand her with her own hair, but that was because of her, not him. I never actually doubted him, I just hate how horrid her behaviour was.
11 Oct 10
Thanks for your comment, but could you tell me how horrid she was?
• United States
11 Oct 10
We'd only been together a few months when he ran into an old friend from high school. They met for lunch and went back to her place to talk and she jumped on top of him. When he told her he had a girlfriend she said, "Yeah so? You don't owe her anything." Well, that was almost 7 years ago now and we've been married over 2 years.
12 Oct 10
Thanks for sharing
• Jamaica
11 Oct 10
I really don't feel threatened whenever a girl comes near to my guy. I've never experienced a situation where i'm standing or sitting there and my partner can't stop talking to another girl, he knows better and i don't like feeling neglected. There has to be trust. As long as there's trust and mutual respect, these issues will not arise.
12 Oct 10
Thanks for your comment. I like that
• Portugal
11 Oct 10
a good way for you to know if your bf loves that girl is if when he is with you always talk about that girl. if he always mention her name is bcs he is interested in her. anyway if you see that your bf has a very close friend that is a girl you should know her better^^ and like that you wouldnt feel so apart. you could also be friends with her and that way he wouldnt be always alone with her talking all the time. but try that your bf says hey meet my friend^^ dont say ohh i want meet your friend or he might think you dont trust him. if you see that he talks much with her but when is with you dont mention her name or rarely mention is bcs they are only friends and you have nothing to be afraid of^^
11 Oct 10
Sweetloveforeve, how do you handle your guy? because I know you have a long distance relationship. I also have the same relationship. Please tell me how you cope with that....