Friend and Lover

lover and friend - friend and lover
China
October 11, 2010 2:44pm CST
Friend can become lover,lover can become friend too! You will find you love your friend unconsciously when you get together doing something. You will pay attention to her or him very much. She or he will pay attention to you very much if her or him love you. In this way,following the time your friend will become your lover. You will find your partner don't adapt to your character maybe your partner will find you dot't adapt to her or him. In this way, following the time your lover will become your friend or not! Someone is afraid of this change between friend and lover. In order to avoid the lover change into friend, they will realize each other very much. Affection is confused for us because of the affection is sacred! Wish them love each other be beatific lover all along!
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savypat
@savypat (20216)
• United States
11 Oct 10
Well my Hubby is my lover, but even more important he is my best friend. We would never have had a marriage that has lasted as long without that friendship.
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satan86
@satan86 (65)
• China
12 Oct 10
That the marriage is a very happy thing, I wish you a happy day!
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ajithlal
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
4 Mar 12
I always believe that life partners can become very best friend. I found it true to myself and lots of my friends. Most times our life partners can understand us more than anyone else.
marifel86
@marifel86 (111)
• Philippines
12 Oct 10
I mean for the person to become a lover,he/she should be your friend at first. But when both friends realize they love each other some people would be scared to risk such friendship to be damaged or broken by entering into a certain relationship. I guess everything should be taken into consideration and that risks are really not unavoidable esp. when someone falls for a friend.
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satan86
@satan86 (65)
• China
13 Oct 10
Agree with the view
ajithlal
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
12 Oct 10
A friend can never become a lover. A friend became a friend in ever. And a lover can never become a friend.
satan86
@satan86 (65)
• China
15 Oct 10
But the two are very difficult to grasp good.
sarahruthbeth22
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
30 Oct 10
Yes a friend can become a lover. My guty and I were friends first. He fell for me first. when I realized I was falling for him, I was afraid the friendship would be ruined or replaced by desire but we are still great friends. In fact he is my best friend! But I can undersand the fear. Will romance ruin the friendship? And you can't know until it is too late. Can lovers become just friends? I think so if they were friends to start with.They Should be able to end the romance and yet remain friends.
hushi22
@hushi22 (4928)
•
11 Oct 10
both can be either. but it still depends on the character of the person.
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satan86
@satan86 (65)
• China
12 Oct 10
Yes, the character determines the relationship between.
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rdramirezC
@rdramirezC (240)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
yeah.,..lover to friendfriend to lover..I AGREE so much! It do happen to every individual
satan86
@satan86 (65)
• China
15 Oct 10
In the process of interaction with the opposite lover, friends are likely to develop into a lover, I fully understood.
sweetloveforeve
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
24 Oct 10
thats true that friends can become lovers^^ and yes lovers can become friends too^^ thats possible bcs like you say of affection^^ is always important that we share things^^ and be there for that person^^ and care much^^ some people are afraid of the change bcs if a relation doesnt work well is hard to still be friends^^ thats why some people dont want to risk their friendship to become lovers with afraid things end badly. but we must always take risks if like someone^^ besides if you have a friend and you know he cares for you and you also the relation will be good almost for sure^^ so better try^^