what is most important in a relationship? love or trust?

Philippines
October 12, 2010 9:28pm CST
i was 1ns in a deep sh8.,she always tell me love me.,.but she ddnt trust me.,.but i love her.,.i trusted her.,.but she cheated the hell out of me.,.maybe love is the best if trust is present.,.its just maybe the the relationship failed bcoz the 1 loves 2 much and and the 1 loves too many.,.=)wish her ol the best.,.
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LetranKnight25
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
I don't know what to say?must be heart breaking? Unfortunately, you're gf has been giving a lot more information and story than the ones you just stated. it lacks a Tremendous amount of info. so, i don't know if i can believe you on this one.if you become active in mylot and let us know you're side of the story, we can understand. anyways, welcome to mylot, i hope you do become active. for you're gf's sake.
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saphrina
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
20 Oct 10
saphrina
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
20 Oct 10
Hello and welcome to mylot. So you are the one causing all of us to hop around trying to salvage this. Now, let's begin then. 1.Trust is the most important thing in any relationship. 2.Respect. 3.Love just tags along for the hell of it. Now we do not do our laundry in public. I would appreciate if you respond to this. TATA.
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anurag3786
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
13 Oct 10
I think trust is very important in any relationship and if there is trust in any relationship then loves automatically comes in this, so I think always make to trust in any relationship and never give hurts to someone by breaking someone trusts.
kingblack147
@kingblack147 (150)
• United States
15 Oct 10
To me both go hand in hand because without trust how can you COMPLETELY love someone? and without love you don't have that confidence in your heart that they will not try to do anything to hurt you. so it's quite hard because more than once i've been told and with them having teary eyes that they loved me a lot but they were scared i would hurt them. so they couldn't trust me.
sweetloveforeve
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
17 Oct 10
aw nas you know very well that i love only you. what is this nonsense saying you love too much and i love too many? i love you and even you hurt me and make me sad i always show i love you. even many people here told me to let you go. im still fighting for us to be together. but now is up to you to give me attention. also you thought i cheated you and you reacted like this? just you didnt care much? i thought you would be very sad if that happened. but i see you accepted it too easy :(
saphrina
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
20 Oct 10
Okay sweetie. This is going to be and sound so harsh. For the last time. Move on, okay. Really, i am getting to old for this. Now you know where you stand with him. Don't let this go on, you will be hurt so much more.
WilsonStill
@WilsonStill (28)
• China
13 Oct 10
Of Couse,there will be no love without trust.If she really love you,she will not cheat you.Maybe you'll find another better girl.