How do you deal with difficult people?

India
October 13, 2010 12:05pm CST
Difficult people are everywhere, who are ready to annoy you anytime by saying things that you dont want to hear,doing things that may push your panic button and may make you angry.We generally encounter such people everywhere in college, workplace etc. So how do you deal with such difficult people,how do you control anger and let go things. If you can give an example please provide it.
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@ThomasVH (381)
• Belgium
13 Oct 10
How I deal with them? Just don't look at them or don't react at whatever they do. Difficult people are childisch and need the threatment like you should give to a child sometimes.
• India
13 Oct 10
I know i just dont understand the weird things they do and why then do?
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@ThomasVH (381)
• Belgium
13 Oct 10
That is hard to explain. Each person is difficult. Some are just having a bad day or a bad year; others are sick in their heads (if you know what I mean) and don't know what they are doing a full 100%... Most of them will not change themselves to the situation, but you shall have to change yourself for them..
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• United States
13 Oct 10
I try ignoring them. The annoying people I deal with are divas and brats who think that they're really all that but they're not. I hate having to go to work and feeling ostracized and marginalized when in fact I know that the experience I have and the feedback I get deserve me a spot at our current project; but conflicting reasons are all I get. I tried ignoring them. Ignoring them worked in that it kept me focused and prevented me from being too upset at everything when I needed to focus on my job.
• India
14 Feb 12
Yes i do agree ... The annoyind difficult people are everywhere, from where they come , with what minsets they come have no idea.. But yes ignoring them is a bliss.
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
I prayed for them. I stay away from them my family were difficult people I used to be influenced but i change my attitude for i cannot feel God's presence and glory having such attitude. and surprisingly with the help of God. and AS i choose and really want to be.. I have more patience more strength. and now I stay away from them as much as i can.so i wouldn't be affected because when i tried to advice them as what i have experienced for I wanted now is to be what God's want us to be. and instead of understanding what i tried to say. They get mad to me and accusing me that i just wanted to be praised and be admired by them were my attention is only I want 'Peace' and so that Blessing from God will come because our life is floating till now. no direction till now and one thing i think why God haven't bless our family because of almost everyday , ever y hour of argument, fighting even for just a simple non sense things.