Finally, Im ready to be in a relationship again
By guitarfreek
@guitarfreek (11)
Philippines
October 13, 2010 12:57pm CST
5 years ago, my partner and I separated because I caught her cheating on me and it wasnt a pretty sight, and for the next few years I've been adrift... not wanting to go into a relationship simply because I know I won't be able to handle it and would end up hurting whoever I am with. But now, finally I can say to myself that im really ready to be in a relationship again, something that will last and will do everything to make it last, anybody out there wanna be the potential better half ?, Im not handsome and I don't have a bodybuilders physique, but 1 thing Im sure I can be... and thats being a loyal, faithful boyfriend and eventually husband who is sure to only have eyes only for his partner and for his partner/wife only.
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7 responses
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
13 Oct 10
hey there...congratulations. I'm glad to see that you got over it and I hope you'll find someone that deserves you.good luck in finding that special someone that will make you happy
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@simonelee (2715)
• China
25 Oct 10
You made the right not to be tied to anyone string since you're not ready at that time. Now, that you are ready just don't hurry things if you don't want that thing to happened again. Finding is not a solution either waiting cause you'll end up expecting much. If i were you just enjoy being single cause often the right one comes if you're not expecting. Love is full of surprises. Enjoy life and soon you'll find the one you've been wanting.
@guitarfreek (11)
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
I know thats exactly why im biding my time and observing those who come along, taking time o consider whether to pursue or not... overall yes im taking my time being single but at the same time im also considering taking chances too... after all love IS about taking chances... the important thing is that if u do love u do it with ur 200%
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
Hi there, Guitarfreek.:)
I am not a potential over nor your potential would be wife because I already am married.:) But, I am dropping here to say that I am happy to hear someone stating he is ready to commit and promising to be faithful to his wife...
You did the right thing. You waited for your wounds to heal and your broken heart to mend. Now it can love again. Good for you. :)
There are just so many fishes in the ocean and I am absolutely sure that there's one for you out there. Do not rush, she'll come your way. Fate and destiny will bring her to your doorstep.:)
Goodluck amd may you find your true love soon.:)
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
22 Feb 13
Guitafreek, you are freaking me out! Where were you when I was ready to have a serious affair? 
Honestly, my dear, I am so happy for you that you have moved on. Well, not everybody can do so and can honestly say they are ready again to love. I, for one, is still under trauma. :-(
Anyways, just keep your heart open. You don't need to rush.Take your time because even if you are not looking for the right person for you, she'll come when the right time comes.
And hey, why emphasizing on those physical attributes. Who can say what's handsoe or not. Just be sexy and being so is being yourself and of course stuff your brain with no nonsense things. That makes a man hotter than their bods look. :-)
Goodluck to you , my dear. :-)
Honestly, my dear, I am so happy for you that you have moved on. Well, not everybody can do so and can honestly say they are ready again to love. I, for one, is still under trauma. :-(
Anyways, just keep your heart open. You don't need to rush.Take your time because even if you are not looking for the right person for you, she'll come when the right time comes.
And hey, why emphasizing on those physical attributes. Who can say what's handsoe or not. Just be sexy and being so is being yourself and of course stuff your brain with no nonsense things. That makes a man hotter than their bods look. :-)
Goodluck to you , my dear. :-)
@stellar126 (278)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
That's great news. Finally getting over the betrayal of your cheating partner must be such a relief. Women don't really go for handsome and ripped, at least the women I know. You'd be surprised how many would prefer loyal, loving and faithful over that. Oh, and funny couldn't hurt either!
Happy Hunting! :)
@guitarfreek (11)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
To be honest I couldnt stop asking myself what went wrong, I did everything but still this happened, and I spent the next 4 years trying to destroy myself with substance abuse which caused another problem altogether, but Im glad I was able to muster enough strength to say "ENOUGH" and move on, it wasnt easy believe me but at least I can say its very doable, I guess I was smart enough to hang in the little piece of sanity I had left back then, and finally mstering enough courage and willpower to simply get up and tread along the road we call life....
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
Well,congratulations.
Conquering fears is one success to be considered in life.
Facing difficulties in life and the ability to smile eventhu your heart is breaking is another success.
It's not easy to moved on and tell the world that you are ready for another life,new battle to face and new steps to make.
Starting all over again is like being born in a new world,full of surprises and being cautious not to make the same mistake again.
Wish you all the luck and have a good day always
