Several questions about marriage

married - marriage
China
October 13, 2010 1:28pm CST
Parent want us to get marry early. But now, "as people wait longer and longer to marry, the defintion of what's too old keeps chanqing." What is the Right Age to Get Married? if single, neven frown, even when you are sad because you never know who is falling in love with your smile. When do you plan to get married? this year next year sometime never? How did/will you propose to your wife?GF? Did/Will you get down on one knee? So how does a proposal-minded man cope?
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@ElicBxn (60895)
• United States
14 Oct 10
Never, that works for me, at 56 (almost 57) I have never been married... works for me
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• China
15 Oct 10
Do you still single? Why?
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@ElicBxn (60895)
• United States
15 Oct 10
Why get married? I didn't want children, and knew the only birth control that works EVERY TIME its used is abstinence... but if you are married, well, husbands don't understand that...
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• China
15 Oct 10
Perhaps you are right, my independence need someone to take care of poor my life. Iwish you a happy, my friend.
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• United States
14 Oct 10
Satan86- I got married to my first husband at age 18 and though I would not give up any of my experiences I realize that I was far too young and did not have the discernment needed to know a good husband from a poor husband. My second husband and I met ten years ago when I was 28 and I was really ready for the responsibility of a relationship but also had the discernment necessary. We were friends for years and four years ago we got married. When my husband proposed he did so at the end of his first visit to me when I was living in Arizona. He had bought match rings with the words "Real love lasts forever" from The Crow. He knelt on one knee and slid the ring on my finger but never said a word. I simply said yes. We had been friends for so long that we simply didn't need to exchange words. I think you can cope by knowing what is right for you. You will know when the time is right and who the right woman is. Namaste-Anora
• China
15 Oct 10
Thanks for your advice feelings can not be forced, when it comes, is a rational or emotional face to face it.
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