what happens when the person you love ,love someone else???

October 14, 2010 1:59am CST
What are you gonna do in this kind of situation? i think this is like the worst thing that can happen to someone in love.
8 responses
@uyab19 (112)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
agree.. worst thing... it hurts so much when the one you love, loves another,i think the best that you can do when it happens is to compete to that person :) do some things that can surpass him/her in a way that your love can fall for you too, so that your love will get confused and measured who is the person he/she love the most among the two :D now if your pertaining to your bf/gf maybe theres something wrong with you thats why his/her heart had a space to love another person, so you should do any cations so you can win him/her back.
@uyab19 (112)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
cations i mean actions :)
14 Oct 10
NOw what if the person you love doesnt love you at all
@uyab19 (112)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
whoah! stay away from that person you love so you will not hurt anymore and move on...LOL just dont force yourself to belove by the person you love because the more he/she reject you the more hurts you would feel, just move on and set him/her free :)
• India
14 Oct 10
I do agree hat this is the worst thing that can happen in love. have you ever had such an experience. I have no idea as I haven't faced such a situation and also do not know any one who had faced it.
14 Oct 10
I have not really had that experience. i dont try to get emotionally attached when i know shes in love with someone else. Anyways you cant love out of pity as that looks like the only way out,it always ends bad when you love someone because you pity the person,i have experienced this one and i say it aint the best way to love.
@adsqqq (15)
• Egypt
17 Nov 10
I'll only blame myself that I didn't choose the right one.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 10
i think maybe it was disaster for you..maybe..but if you wanna take a positive side, you must thanks because it`s good if you never meet a person like that..you love her/his but she or he doesnt love you.. you can imagine in your wedding and after your marriage party.. your life is broken because you live with a people who never loves you too much..
@iamdee (158)
• Philippines
15 Oct 10
I have not experienced this kind of situation too. But I learned in Psychology what we call as unrequited love. I guess unrequited love somehow can be applied in this situation. Unrequited love is a love that is not reciprocated or when the beloved may or may not be aware that he or she is being admired or loved by the other or simply there's no mutual feelings between the two of them. Most of the time, the beloved in an unrequited love is a friend or someone we see regularly in school or we work with in our workplace. Unrequited love is a negative experience which often results to depression.I think for someone who experiences this kind of love, he or she must learn to accept the truth and move forward in his or her life because this world have billions of people worth loving for.
@tkonlinevn (5784)
• Vietnam
14 Oct 10
In my opinion, we shouldn't get the thing which is not ours. So, if he/her don't love you, you should leave him/her. If you love yourself, you wouldn't make you are hurt!
@liza21 (180)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
Oh my, I don't think I can handle that, but in that case, I'm going to release him and stay out of my life, It's hard to love someone who doesn't love you....
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
I think this situation would probably be difficult, but for me I will just secretly loving him, why? because I don't want that the situation would be more complicated if I join in. When you love a person it means that you will do anything for her/him to be happy in every aspect of her life, right?. So if he/she loves that person, well, let it go! Although it hurts like a thousand knives, I will just endure it, because loving is also sacrificing.I will just wait for him to realize that how I love him more than how he/she can imagined as the saying goes " Action speaks louder than word" or maybe she/he is not for you!, he/she is destined for somebody's happiness then If you desperately get his/her attention,well it is like just,you are stilling a heart for somebody.We just need to wait, because when you wait its worth it!