Had a breakup recently
By leo2050
@leo2050 (348)
India
October 15, 2010 12:15am CST
Hello mylotters, recently i had been gone through a very bad situation called breakup. I really loved her but she dumped me. I was really very very sad. But i learnt something. We have to be selfish to survive in this world. So from now, i will live only for myself.
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8 responses
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
15 Oct 10
I guess, life is like that my friend. Do not be bitter when your girlfriend dumped you. I understand that you are going through a heart broken, but I want you to look on the brighter side. Do not be selfish to survive, rather reserve something for yourself. If she does not deserve your love then move on and let go. Something good and more special will come to you.
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@tjen_anni (317)
• Indonesia
15 Oct 10
hello there...I believe you'll change your mind after you meet someone new....Breakup doesn't mean the end of the world..wake up man...someone out there is waiting for you...Don't ever look at your past...
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@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
15 Oct 10
leo2050,
I wonder if you'd realized that you are already living for yourself from the beginning.
Anyway, I just cannot help but feel that you are feeling sore about giving up yourself in this relationship that is hindering yourself from moving on. And I wonder if the situation will be the same when you meet the next girl of your dreams since a relationship is really about give and take.
But is that excuse good enough not to move along in life?
If you do have that wisdom to understand you would be able to discern that, it doesn't matter how many girls come into your life - you would be still be trying to give the other party a certain ground to stand and speak. Yet, can you really draw a line just when is enough really enough? Wouldn't that make you appear calculative?
You see, nobody can make you move on if that isn't what you want to do.
Eventually as time passed naturally, you will probably realized that there's no way she could change to like you more or relevantly love you and like that kid who couldn't get what he wants - you will still succumb to the power of time and move along.
The difference is that all these while when you have decided to remain where you are, you have probably wasted much of your emotional self when you actually do have a choice to LEARN from your previous relationship and empower yourself spiritually.
Remember, you make you own choice in life, you live with what your choice dictate and I wish you a speedy recovery.
@sweetmary86 (822)
• Philippines
30 Nov 10
dont be such a pathetic loser. its not the end of the world. dont take it seriously. meet alot of girls and enjoy cuz thats the essence of being a man..lol!!
@adamgray1337 (147)
• United States
15 Oct 10
Maybe you are right, but then that would make you a selfish person. I would rather hurt my self if it meant helping others.
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@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
15 Oct 10
I do understand about your feeling. But, make it balance. Don't be too depressed, optimistic, even selfish. If you are trying to be selfish I am afraid you are not going to be able to feel the warmth of love anymore. Breaking up is something normal to experience, so that you will be stronger and you will gain knowledge to build better relationship next time.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
15 Oct 10
I understand you are in a heart broken mood (hurts)
By the time you can moved on from that heart break,you can say that you are stronger than before.
In the name of love,there is a winner and there is a loser.
Never consider losing someone that you are a loser.
You lose that someone for a better one to come into your life.
If one more you lose that someone,it is becoz,the best is yet to come.
Have a great weekend ahead
