can't i just be happy in our vacation?
October 15, 2010 4:19am CST
we are now on the third day of our vacation. we checked into a hotel, courtesy of a relative. so our stay here is free. while here, we decided to go swimming. so i asked my husband to pack our things, as i will just beat a deadline about something. we need to earn so beggars can't be losers right? so after i have done some of the things that we needed to do, we went downstairs to swim. the water was too cold so we decided that we will not stay long because the water was just too cold for our baby. then after a few minutes, the fumes from the construction nearby seeped into the area and the swimming area smelled of solvent. we were afraid that our daughter will become allergic to the inhalant again and so we quickly decided to go out. then i realized that my husband forgot to pack the towel. so i said, i will just wrap our baby with her towel and we can proceed. then my husband wondered what if we will be reprimanded in the hallway because we were dripping. so i answered then what can we do because we didn't have a towel? he got mad because he thought i got mad. when i said i did not get mad he said because of the way i talked etc etc. imagine that! he was the one who made the mistake and now he is on the defensive! now i just refused to talk to him and i am completely ignoring him. talk about completely wasting our vacation on something so useless! even when i said that i did not get angry at him, he will not believe me. he said he did, but why does he keep getting angry? and why didn't he apologize. he said he did, all i heard was him saying that he wanted to be heard. duh! arggggh!!!! i hate him!