Conditional VS Unconditional Love

@blomst (71)
Malaysia
October 15, 2010 5:34am CST
Unconditional love = simply being who you are, regardless the wrong or right thing we did, regardless anything imperfection we have. Conditional = The kind of love tat is usually tied to performance or when you live up to an expectation or else withdrawn from it. If we were given unconditional love,then most likely we learn to accept our-self for who we are and are happy by being just you. Will have high level of self-esteem and confidence. However, if we were given conditional love (common type given by parents)thus are more likely to develop into adult with lower self worth, feelings of inadequacy and insecurity which may lead to suspicion and jealousy.This is because the underlying conditional love sends, is that you are not really good enough being who you are. So, let us try learning to accept ourselves or who we are, rather than what we do or want to posses.
1 response
@grubder23 (271)
• Philippines
15 Oct 10
great info and opinion. unconditional love for me