you say you want leave your lover. you think he would ask you to dont leave?^^

true love^^ - boy kissing girl in cheek^^
Portugal
October 15, 2010 2:03pm CST
hi guys^^ imagine that you say to your lover that you want to leave him. do you think he would ask you to dont leave?^^ about me i dont think my bf would ask me that. i think he would say if that makes you happy. bcs he always says he wants i be happy and if im not happy with him. i just wish he fight more for me^^ sometimes i feel insecure about his love. i just needed he showed it more. anyway what about you guys? what do you think? would your lover ask you to dont leave? please share^^
2 responses
15 Oct 10
they may beg and plead, but if your mind is made up then it stays that way, you shouldn't change your mind just because it will upset them.
• Portugal
17 Oct 10
yes^^ i understand what you mean. if we are not happy we should stick to our decision^^ about me i wouldnt leave my bf unless i found out that he doesnt love me really. otherwhise i have no reason to leave him. but im sad that he doesnt have much time for me. sometimes i feel that is so complicated that we talk. we are so far and if cant talk everyday is too complicated.
17 Oct 10
it is always good to communicate often, much harder when you can't be there in person. Many words can be spoken just by your facial expression, but how can they see this if they are not with you? I feel for you as you seem to reallyt love and want your boyfriend, but you hardly communicate and surely you need that time together in person, also he is busy with his family and so you get very little time.
• Portugal
17 Oct 10
yes craigy^^ would be ok if we were far as long as we could see each other and speak^^ two hours or even one hour per day would be ok^^ but we dont have that. before we talked almost everyday^^ bcs i went to sleep late but my mum didnt want i go sleep so late. so we cant anymore. anyway i would like that he sent at least 4 messages or 5 messages saying sweety things to me^^ so even we cant talk at least i have his sweet messages to read and feel his love. but he just write one message mostly and sometimes not even one
@Karunvig (714)
• India
16 Oct 10
hahahah... my girl wil say ok karun you leave me... u must have got a better girl than me, ok bye may God bless u :P then she will never call me :| but will enquire my friends how Am I and will abuse the girl i am with.. :P
• Portugal
17 Oct 10
she would ask your friends? ahah and would be bad to the girl you are with? that would be too stupid. she didnt have the right to be mean to your new girl. i mean if you loved someone else she had to respect it bcs you broke up with her so. anyway your gf is far from you right? and dont say nothing since two monthes so you should leave her.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
21 Oct 10
yes she is far from me :P and always be :D :D :P as future seems to be dark :O :O lol... well life plays many roles, few interesting and few horror ones :d