What are the fundamental steps in courting a woman? / myLot

Philippines

October 15, 2010 10:41pm CST

I want to court someone but I do not know how. Ive had girlfriends before but now i lost faith on my own diskarte (strategy) after being turned away twice now. haha. Is there some Dos and Donts? Please put your own comments. I have checked Google and I found a lot and right now, I need real experience. Please share your own opinions and ideals.

3 responses

marj22

@marj22 (73)

• Philippines

16 Oct 10

Just be yourself, be confident, have faith in yourself be down to earth and humble, before you knew it she is already your girl friend...((:

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Danzylop

@Danzylop (1120)

• Philippines

21 Oct 10

thanks.. I did.. I should be myself.. I dont want to love me for something that I am not..

alina

@swissheart (6482)

• Romania

16 Oct 10

thrust yourself...that's the only advice I can give you. women like self confident people, they shoe power. as for me for exmple I also like to laugh alot, so if a guy is funny then he definitely gets my vote. so try to be yoyurself and make her laugh. good luck

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Danzylop

@Danzylop (1120)

• Philippines

21 Oct 10

oh that is a very tough job. I am a serious type of guy. I become funny when I am with friends. It find it hard to throw jokes when she is around. It will take time before I become comfortable to be like that when i am with her.

sweetloveforeve

@sweetloveforeve (13106)

• Portugal

16 Oct 10

i can give you some advises^^ we girls always like guys that are sweet, funny and caring^^ we dont like careless guys like those that show much much interest and suddenly act like we are nothing. we get hurt with those guys. if you like a girl and want to approach her say something nice to her^^ you can say like hi^^ im dan and you? and then talk in a sweet way^^ let her talk too and dont just ask things^^ dont be nervous also^^ dont worry im sure they will want to be friends with you^^ and then after being friends for a bit you can ask her to go to cinema with you or to have lunch with you^^ they wont refuse for sure^^

Danzylop

@Danzylop (1120)

• Philippines

21 Oct 10

thanks for that advices sweetloveforeve, Yes I did that. hmn. oh my! i should tell you that, she invited me to play guitar together. but that time I was so stupid! I didn't grab the situation to make good conversation. I was so hesitant to start a discussion because even though she is right beside me, she was so busy with her phone. She was texting someone. Argh! And one stupid thing was, all the songs that she requested was strange songs! hahaha! I never heard them before! hahahaha.. I really regret that chance that I missed. sweetloveforever, she actually started to avoind me now after knowing that I like her. someone I trusted talked to her about that silly stuff! argh! I want to kill that guy.. hahahaha...