I feel so bad today because I bought an apartment

China
October 17, 2010 8:52am CST
After a few days searching, i found an apartment that I really like. It has fully funished. I should be very happy today. But I have to pay 30% down payment, which means my parents (they help me to pay for this) do not have that much money, and they need to borrow some from others. This also means I will have a loan to the bank, and need to save money and pay them back every month. Truly, I don't want my parents to do this for me. But....this feeling is so terrible. Do you guys ever have this kind of feeling?
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• United States
17 Oct 10
I can see where you feel a bit guilty about this but I would say, never forget the wonderful helping hand they have provided. In other words at some point in your life they will need you and well remembering how they helped you, you then should be that much more willing and eager to help them no matter what. Congrats on the new apartment by the way.
• India
17 Oct 10
Till my graduation, my parents supported me. They have provided me the thing even before I ask for it. After my graduation and when I landed into a Job I never asked a single penny from them. But I feel bit hurt because they will not accept money from me. As both of them are working and they say it's enough for them what they are earning.