Cheating on you!

India
October 17, 2010 12:05pm CST
What would you do if your girlfriend or boyfriend was found red handed cheating you? Do you think he/she deserves a second chance? Do you think maybe you could forgive them? I just found out my girlfriend had cheated on me and yet before me she pretends everything is lovely. I can't confront her and at the same time i can't keep quite about it also. What do you think i should do? Cheers!
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7 responses
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
18 Oct 10
I won't give him a second chance. That's not fair to me. He has his share of fun out there, yet keeping me in the dark? Is that what love is about? Sharing? If that's the case, he has proven to me i'm not important in his life, or my love is not enough to have him by my side faithfully. When that happens, why should i give him a second chance when he's easily tempted?
@formidexo (1351)
• Canada
18 Oct 10
If she cheated once and she didn't tell you, how do you know if she will not cheat again? Can you really trust her? Don't you think that there is a serious problem in your relationship? Does she really care about you? She cheated on you, what does that tell you?
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@android (895)
5 Jan 11
Well whether she admits it or not you have to make it clear to her that you know. If you go on letting her think she got away with it, trust me, she'll do it again. I'm just coming out of a ten-year relationship and my fiancee has had four affairs with three different men and the truth has only recently come out.
• Philippines
5 Jan 11
Good Day! For me, I won't give him a chance because if he really loves me, he wouldn't do that kind of thing, he wouldn't cheat on me. He don't deserve my love. He's just a waste of time so I'll try me best to move on and wait for someone that deserves my love. There are so many fishes in the sea so don't waste your time on a cheater.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
5 Jan 11
hi, my ex-lover did that to me twice, but still i forgive him, even i hurt,but of course the trust is already gone.
• United States
20 Nov 10
If I knew my boyfriend cheated on me, or I caught him red-handed cheating on me, I wouldn't be inclined to give him another chance. I've never been in the situation, but I believe cheating is really very selfish and a terrible betrayal of trust, so I would rather just end the relationship right then and there. Why should I put my time and energy into something he obviously doesn't care enough to respect? It would be even worse if he lied about it, as well.
• India
20 Nov 10
That's what i have did just now. Separated far far away from her....
@rautrahul (267)
• India
19 Oct 10
When you find out that your BF/GF has cheated on you, your heart is likely to be broken in little pieces that may seem impossible to put back together. His/Her betrayal will undoubtedly will be very painful. However, it is still possible to give him a second chance & restore your relationship. This is really possible as long as both of them work for restoration. A relationship involves two people, & this includes breaking & stregthening it. When both are committed to putting their painful experience behind them, they will be able to have happier relationship.