married at a young age

United States
October 18, 2010 5:11am CST
what do you guys all about getting married at a young age?
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8 responses
@chillpill90 (1936)
18 Oct 10
I think it is different for everyone it depends on the couple and people involved to when they feel comfortable with making such a big step in their lives. There is no right or wrong age to when people can get married.
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• United States
18 Oct 10
Yes, I agree with you. Age does not determine whether or not to marry and mature thinking adult can not be seen whether or not a person. Do you agree with getting married at a young age?
• India
18 Oct 10
It is not good to get married young. A person should only get married after he has got maturity in life. Otherwise, problems could arise.
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@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
18 Oct 10
I think it is good to getting married in young age if you are professional means in any good jobs. I think a person don’t get married until he/she not understands to shoulders their responsibility and also in good jobs. What do you say about this? I am right or wrong.
• United States
18 Oct 10
Yeah I think correctly, while the man responsible for his decision, why not.
@vicereine (451)
• United States
14 Nov 10
I think it just depends on the people involved for some it could be the best thing in the world and for others it could be miserable. For example my parents married very young and had me and my brother very young. My mom was only 16 when she married my dad who was about 19 or 20 at the time I forget now. Anyhow they have been married now for many years and have had a blast. They are even more in love now than before and of course they have their problems but so do all married couples but they were both ready for marriage and kids. So again it depends my mom had my older brother at 17 and me at 19 so she started her family very young and she hasn't regretted a day since. So I think young people getting married can make it through if they really love each other and want to be together.
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
Marrying at a young age is not appropriate in this kind of time.Besides, we are still so young to have our own family..we don't have enough knowledge on that yet...so better not do that!
• Indonesia
1 Nov 10
Did you mean, what is in our mind about getting married at a young age? Well, it think every one have individual perception about this topic. For me, I don't wanna married at the young age, because the responsibility is too big. I am afraid I can't be a good husband, can't be a good father because I am too young.
• United States
18 Oct 10
How young do you mean? I personally think 21 is the absolute youngest and that's only for the people who are truly mature for their age.
• Oman
18 Oct 10
But how would you define "young age"? Is it the stage where you're still a child developing (maybe 12 y/o and above), or in your teen/young adulthood (about 16+)? There are other countries that marry their kids at a tender age, as seen in some news reports, and I'm not a fan of this. A human body is still developing at this stage and there are a lot of emotions to go through. You may deprive yourself of experiencing the single life and focusing on your own growth/maturity. Knowledge of a life of marriage is still very little, compared to marrying at a later time. Marrying as a teen has its own disadvantages too. It's really a common situation, but by no means is it good or okay. First, your future changes so much, especially if you're a woman, and your plans have to focus on keeping your family fed and intact (for the male, especially). Your experiences are cut short in some areas too. Marriage is no small talk. It requires maturity and deep love for your spouse. Also, getting married means RESPONSIBILITY and COMMITMENT, and if you aren't responsible enough and ready for commitment, then you shouldn't get married just yet.