is marriage the answer?
October 18, 2010 9:04am CST
if you're a woman and you got pregnant, will you marry your bf just because you're pregnant? if you're a man and your gf got pregnant, will you ask her to marry you? what should be the reason why you would marry?
26 Oct 10
i got pregnant out of wedlock. when that happened i didn't force him to marry me. in fact, we gave ourselves time to think if we really wanted to be together.well,it didn't took that long for us to have that space, just for a few days we realize that we really love each other but marriage was still not the answer.after we had our fourth child,actually 5 years after our fourth child that's the time we got married.it's a different story ,isn't it? have a nice day
26 Oct 10
good to know about your story..well, i would say that you have made a very good decision...actually, you can be together without the marriage first...just like what you did..but it may not work out for others , especially those who may be conservative. anyways, im glad to know it worked out for you.
• Guangzhou, China
18 Oct 10
If it happened to me, I thought most of the time I would choose to get married. As the child was innocent, I didn't want to abort a baby if it's not necessary. If I didn't get married, it would be very difficult for a woman to bring up a child. It is not good for the child to grow up because the child also needs dad and this is a complete family. If I were a man, I would ask my girlfriend to marry me if she was pregnant. We should be careful before we got marriage. If we made a mistake and she was pregnant, I should take responsibilities to it. After all, it's not easy for a girl to marry to another man when she has a baby. And this baby is mine, so I shall try my best to be a good dad. I love China
18 Oct 10
I would marry only for the right reason - and that is - I love the person I'm about to marry. If I got pregnant, I wouldn't immediately jump to marriage unless I'm sure he is the person I love and would love to spend the rest of my life with.