Do you think that the first lover will be your actual partner in your life?

@lxho99 (74)
Malaysia
October 20, 2010 10:06am CST
Many people say that 80% of first lover wont become your actual partner in your life. It is means that your first lover will not become your actual husband or wife in your future. Do you agree? What do you think?
9 responses
• Malaysia
21 Oct 10
It is correct!! Because when we first meet with our lovers, we are about young in age and not in mature yet. Thus, we are 80% make selection in incompleted condition. When we're getting old in age, our selection would be more consistent with our own personality.
@lxho99 (74)
• Malaysia
21 Oct 10
Your comment is very accurately. Why you look so experience in this issue?
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
Yes.. i agree that your first love won't be your actual partner in life..because ypur just starting to explore love and you will fi nd someone else better than your first love..
@lxho99 (74)
• Malaysia
22 Oct 10
Some people say that if you get know your lover deeply, you will feel that there is no more fresh and new thing to explore, you will feel frowzily and tedious. So slowly that you will find a new lover. Is it correct?
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
yes i do agree on that because love is mysterious,it comes in many different ways, who knows that your first lover will not become your actual partner or it will be, but for me it will just happened if there relationships is very strong.
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
i don't think so. maybe its just a saying, but it is always depend on the situation on how you manage your love and your partner. many people say that. some of my friends believe on that first lover will be your actual partner in life.
21 Oct 10
In this day and age i would certainly agree with this statement. It is very rare that when you have your first lover that you actually spend the rest of your lives together. We are all different and i would say that we do have several patners, as much as we will never forget our first love, that is all it is, our first love that is in the past, we later on do move on and eventually can find happiness elsewhere. I am single but have had many relationships but i will never ever forget my first love, it had so much meaning to me. But that is in the past and we both moved on.
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
I agree, nowadays it is almost impossible to end up with ones first boyfriend or girlfriend. Although as a woman, that was my dream also, I don't like to have a lot of relationships before I get married but we cannot force ourselves to stay in a relationship if we're no longer happy with it.
• United States
20 Oct 10
I think it's more like 95% chance that your first relationship will break up. For the vast majority of people, the first relationship is not the person best suited to you, it's just your first try at finding a partner. Most of the time it takes several relationships to learn what you really want in a person and from a relationship.
@stylewaves (1060)
• India
20 Oct 10
Definitely i have to accept with u , my first lover was not getting into Life , i have loving her for 7 years !
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
From my point of view.. it doesn't mean that he/she is you first lover means he/she can be your actual partner in life because there are many things that will come when it comes to relationships. Sometimes unexpected things that makes your relationship wont last long. When it comes to your actual partner in life you need to consider a lot things both physically and emotionally. Lastly, your actual partner in life is a person whom you can imagine your future with him/her and live a happy life. ^_^