can a cheating boyfriend/girlfriend ever be faitful again?

You are definitely right my friend. It is about trust that can be destroyed. However, when he did it once and forgive him, still doubts can exist until he gives you the security that he has changed. You are as well right that less chances to change when the partner cheated not only once. It is a common issue and it feels like it is a disease. What wonders me is that when a man cheats, it is just fine and justified. If a woman cheats, it seems like all fingers are pointed to her. It is still a taboo for women to have an affair. Although, i am not saying that men are justified to commit it. I hate it actually. It is hurting to those whose partner has an affair.It is degrading on the injured party.

you are right in what you say^^ thats true that the chances that that person doesnt cheat again are almost none. but if cheated only one time you can trust i guess. or at least give a second chance^^ but if cheated many ones even if you want to trust would be hard. i guess in that case you should find a better guy one that at least you wouldnt doubt all the time about his fidelity^^

maybe who knows.. but if my man will cheat to me..I dont know if I can still give the same trust that I gave him before..actually I had experience where my bf cheats to me..and after that I tried everything to make him back..even begging..and then he comes back..but after a while I realize that maybe I am just used of being with him..and I cant give him the love that I had before for him..so turns out that I leave him and tell him properly that I could no longer love him... coz the day he was gone I fell for the other guy who I never thougt have been there all the time for me:)

He/She may be faithful again, but as for me it is my own trust in him that would be hard to restart. Once, he is unfaithful, I will look and try to find out when he will do it again. That is not good. So I will forgive him and let him go.

My friend once said that if an individual is not yet serious to commit his or her self in a relationship, then it just means that he or she will continue to be adventurous and unfaithful when it comes to their partners. Most people, especially men, tends to be adventurous and too playful with all things, especially when it comes to women and relationship. They think that women are like food that you can try and taste and just ignore afterwards. When men are already tired of playing games and are seeking for a serious relationship, that is the only time that they will stop in cheating. If your boyfriend or girlfriend was a cheater before then be careful. Chances are, he/she may not yet be ready to get serious with your relationship so be in the look out.