my parents need help give me some advise.

@kerrina (104)
Canada
October 22, 2010 2:32pm CST
hi everyone, my parents haven't been happy for a realy realy long time. i've been mentally poisoned by my mom because she's been bad mouthing my dad all my life and it made me hate him growing up as a child. i have a good relationship with my dad now becuase ive grown up alot and learned to love my dad but even till this day she still bad mouths him and talks sh*t all the time about it. i tell her to stop.. and my dad is realy tryting to make things work between them. my mom insists that he's not doing anything but my dad is trying so hard. Do you think they are staying togehter for the wrong reasons ? Please, tell me what they should be doing! thanks everyone :)
2 responses
• United States
22 Oct 10
Have they tried marriage counseling?
@kerrina (104)
• Canada
22 Oct 10
i have went once with them and they've told me they've went but i dont particularly believe it.. my dad is trying hard, but my mom is not budging :(
• United States
23 Oct 10
Kerrina nothing you say and or do will make or break their relationship as they are the ones that need to fix and or separate. The only thing I can say to you is to remain loyal to your heart, which means no matter what your mother says about your father you remain faithful to your own heart. In other words do not feel that one is better than the other simply by their actions but by how you truly feel about them. As for your parents perhaps they are only together as they do not know how to let go. But this is something they surely have to figure out instead of bickering all the time. Good luck to you though as this has to be hard on you. I wish you well.