Enjoy the moment of being single...
By alokijon
@alokijon (665)
Malaysia
October 22, 2010 8:35pm CST
Time passes very fast. The problem is I am still single. Many of my friends are already married and here I am without any partner. Yes I do admit that there are time whereby I feel lonely and the bad part is when I am sick. This is the time where I feel that how I wish I have a partner to take of me and I take care of her/my partner. Other than that, I enjoy my singlehood life. I am free to do whatever that I want to do. I am free to go wherever I want to go. I am not ready to give full commitment to another half. Hopefully one day, when the cupid strikes...off I enter the married life hahahaha
9 responses
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
23 Oct 10
That's good attitude for you. I remember when i broke off with my ex some few years back... i thought i better enjoy being single since i am already single and i was actually happy being single... =)But God did have a plan for e and he gave me my bf now and we are on our 2nd year already! yippeee I'd say we are going well and as much as i love being single... i also liked being with a partner and its just so much better to know that someone do care for you as much as your family does...
Your time will come and when you do meet her... you sure have to make sure you make her happy! =)
@telis80000 (31)
• Greece
23 Oct 10
i agree with you...it is awful to have to tell all the things that you are doing to her...!but girls are good in other things :P:P:P
@yippih (101)
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11 Dec 10
Hello alokijon, i am here to congratulate you first because
YOU STILL AVAILABLE TO CHOOSE YOUR ANOTHER HALF!!!
I also still single, dont have any partner, but i quite enjoy of my life now, just like you say free to do and go wherever i like, but i don't feel lonely because i got nice friends around me in real life and virtual life too, had a lot of mylotters here accompany me and you, then don't feel lonely as well.
Be patient, sure got your another half that waiting for you, just go find her out, enjoy your single life and happy mylotting.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
23 Oct 10
For me I am single and want to be! I have had relationships in the past but I discovered single is for me! I can do anyhting I want to do! I can come and go as I please! I don't have to answer to anyone! I am free and I like it that! I never want to be married!
@gemawei (18)
• China
23 Oct 10
well to tell you the truth that my situation is just the same as you.In my opinion the advantages of single just as you have mentioned that i can free to do whatever i want to do and free to go wherever i want to go.so i deeply agree with your view about that i myself still enjoy my singlehood life.
In our china there are some sayings about predestined marriage just like:" fate brings together people who are far apart","there is no meeting without predestination","two beings destined to marry each other,though thousands of miles apart,are tied together with an invisible red thread by an od man under the moonlight","as decreed by providence you have met her;otherwise you might have failed although you traveled a long way".
The proverbs all of the above just indicate the importance of predestination.you may get it by chance ,but not effort.At last i wish you have a good marriage or partner arranged by cupid in the near future.hahahaha.
@diana_sun (39)
• Bulgaria
23 Oct 10
Yes being single has some positive sides-freedom is what can not be bought but the reason most people try to make a family is connected with raising children and coping with hard times together with your half.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
23 Oct 10
Well that is a great attitude friend you have there. It is best to weigh all the pros and cons while being single then perhaps being stuck in a bad relationship. So enjoy yourself as much as you can as when that heart starts to pound you will know when it is time to no longer be single.
As when you are ready to commit yourself to one person, there will be no more weighing or questioning as you will surely know. 
@enthusiasticone (348)
• China
23 Oct 10
yes, i like it so much. and everything will be better when single. and you can do what you want to do . and to find what you like. but single is good for our young people .if you are old enough. you d better find a partner for life. it will be better for life with a family. good luck.
@beeh13u (1038)
• Philippines
23 Oct 10
Follow your heart. Choose the life that makes you happy. Being single isn't a bad thing. If you are still not ready to be in a married life, then don't. You may think that your friends are happy for having a partner, but problems may still arise from their relationship. A lot of people are going through divorce right now for marrying at an early age. But I am not saying that you are miserable when you are married. Just be happy and fulfill all the things you want to do in life before you commit to a serious bond with another person.
