is it difficult to make others love us.....????
By srinivas2036
@srinivas2036 (188)
India
October 23, 2010 8:32am CST
Many people says... that he scolded me... that person dont like me.. she hates me.. i dont like them...?????
Have you ever think WHY IT HAPPENING?
WHATS THE REASON?
WHAT TO DO?
Its not a bigdeal to be loved by others. But one thing we should keep in mind while expecting this is .... "YOU SHOULD LOVE OTHERS TO GET LOVE"
this is the basic thing every one can say and understand if they start thinking. cant u agree?
World around u is just like a mirror if you shower love on it .. .. it definitely showers love on you.
Be friendly with others crack the jokes with friends. Give a smile while talking to them so they feel happy and say good things to u and they love u. Small words can make a big Difference in heart . one should know it. and unneccesarily should not hurt others so sothers will definietely love u. if one hates u .. there is a reason for it. just think a while about it. then u find the truth.
please share ur feelings so it will be helpful to others also...
THANKING YOU...
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8 responses
@harry89 (2330)
• India
23 Oct 10
Yea you can't make anybody to love you if they don't, the only thing that you can do to make them love you is to impress them somehow. You can make them happy by spending more time with them so that they get to know more about you, maybe then they start to love you, but you can only hope.
Regards,
harry, :-)
@srinivas2036 (188)
• India
25 Oct 10
yes what you told is also right. Making time with them also makes you their person for sure. thanks for your nice suggestion here.
@enthusiasticone (348)
• China
24 Oct 10
yes, i think its easy to do so. and if you love him or her . and she or he will love you too. so they all need our love though they looks so strong . but they need the love from their deep heart.then they will love you to her or his best in a way after we do so . no pains no gains . i think this is the best sentence in the world. good luck .
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
23 Oct 10
I've heard that in order for others to love you, you have to love yourself first. This is true, especially if it really shows. It just goes to show that you have self-respect and girls love that.
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
23 Oct 10
i agree that if we make good we receive good ^^ is true that we should always be sweet to others ^^ but sometimes people are bad for no reason. like those husbands that beat in their wives and they didnt do nothing bad to them. they just beat them bcs of problems they had in their past or something and they are the ones getting hurt. so not in all cases people are bad for a reason. sometimes they are bad bcs of a reason sure but not bcs of that person they hurt.
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
23 Oct 10
Making others love us back is such a difficult task if you will not be true to yourself. So I think we must not force anyone to love us the way we love them. All we have to do is love them more, be our own lovable self...then let them realize on their own to see our worth...
@diana_sun (39)
• Bulgaria
23 Oct 10
Yes, it is difficult to make someone loves you if he he is not frank and if he is selfish. But being kind and helpful and friendly to other people will definitely open a door in someone's heart and lead him to love you, not your clothes, shoes, job, money, but You as a hunam being.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
23 Oct 10
We can't make people love or hate us. We can only show them who we are. it is up to them to return the feeling to us. It is always a happy feeling when someone shows us the approval in loving us. the alternative is not so pleasant to deal with.
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
23 Oct 10
love begets love, if you share love, it will brings back love to you. Make your self lovable and people will love you. Be honest, be yourself and love yourself so you know who to love others too.
