When you know the infidelity of your friend, would you tell the spouse?

@vangie26 (445)
Philippines
October 26, 2010 2:27am CST
It's very hard to have a very deep friendship with someone you knew is not a faithful wife/husband? You know the secret , of course. You tell her/him to stop it but didn't listen. Where are you going to stand? By the side of your bestfriend or in truth?Knowing to stand in truth might cause separation of the two or a big big fight.
5 responses
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
no, because it is none of my business.. it would be hard to meddle with something like that between the couple.
• China
26 Oct 10
Truth will come to light sooner or later, I just let him go.
@Bannybanzie (1397)
• Philippines
1 Nov 10
I'll first talk to my friend and ask her why she did that and for how long. I'll give her advices then to stop it and that she should talk to her husband if they got issues. They should talk about this thing on their own. It is a very confidential matter in marriage.
@shibham (16977)
• India
26 Oct 10
I shall keep the truth for my friend because i know him better than his spouse.
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
I would probably give my friend time to fix everything - weather he/she will stay by her other half or will go for separation to be with this third party. I don't think I can just sit in the corner watching her/him destroy their marriage especially if they have kids. If she cannot put an end to that, I would probably do that for her/him.
• China
26 Oct 10
No, because it is your friend and between won't let her lover go for me this unhappy things to worry about, who love you whatever you what happened, he would worry!