Do you feel n love in a wrong person?

Philippines
October 26, 2010 2:08pm CST
Guy's did you felt in love in a wrong person? I mean the committed one? Before I didn't know that the man courted me is married because he is always in my side if I needed him and always free all the time. But after I accept his love, I found out that he is a married man having 3 kids and sick wife. I am disappo9nted, hurt, and betrayed during that time because I thought he is the one. But I don't want to ruined their family that's why I break him and let him go. I am conscience for what I am doing. If you saw his wife, you felt pity. From now on, before I committed to the other guy, I make sure that he is free, not committed and no responsibility with others to avoid situation like before..
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9 responses
@swissheart (6461)
• Romania
26 Oct 10
I felt in love with a guy who was involved in a relationship for over 2 years, and the stupid thing it's that I feel like I still love him. I didn't have any idea that he had a relationship. he seemed so sweet, so different from the other guys that I had previously met...and yea I was right...he was different..the worst of them all. I found out that he was in a relationship with someone from one of his friends :) and it was horrible
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• Malaysia
27 Oct 10
I feel what you feel as I am also in the same situation. Nowadays people seem to be so deceiving.
@saqi78 (1405)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 10
You did the right thing, one should care his family. Break up with such a person is totally right becoz if a person can do this to his family sick wife then some time he can do the same with you.
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@saqi78 (1405)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 10
And thanks God you came to know about every thing earlier Have a nice day...
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• United States
27 Oct 10
I think that it is best that you move on. He has a family to attend to, and duties to fulfill as a father and as a husband. The heartbreak will hurt you temporarily, but in the long run, you will become a better person and find another love to share your life with. If he is dating women while his wife is ill, then she is not the only sick one. He is too, but in the head rather. If you pursue the relationship, then he could end up doing the same thing to you in the future. Please watch out for yourself. God bless.
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
yes i keep on falling for the wrong guys and im disappointed. maybe im just not lucky when it comes to lovelife. i keep on crossing my fingers to come across someone and keep him for real but its so hard esp. nowadays ppl are so practical they just fooling around.
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@hushi22 (4941)
26 Oct 10
when i look back from my past i think i fell in love with the wrong guy. it was weird because he was kinda my first love and my whole family really didnt like him but i have gone crazy for that guy.
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@mensab (4208)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
it was really a brave decision on your part to let go of the man you thought to be the one for you. i admire your resolve to let him go and not break a family. i could imagine the difficult moment that you had to undergo while reflecting and pondering on the scenarios. but you were able to do it without guilt feelings and regret. that's very courageous act. best wishes on the next attempt.
@cheneper (133)
• Thailand
27 Oct 10
How would you know that you have fallen in love to a wrong person?
• Greece
27 Oct 10
it is very bad...VERY VERY BAD!!!!I did it once and i paid it very bad..I was running after her like a dog and when i forgot her she wanted me...BUT....She paid it very bad. I couldn't do something with her. It is bad for myself. What do you think?
@anurag3786 (6275)
• India
27 Oct 10
I never feel this in my life because I always think that love is not possible by one side. Because it need both site supports. And if there are the base are not strong from any side then it doesn’t working good. And also trust is necessary in this kind of relationship. Well if I say about me then I had loved only one girl but she never loves me the reason I don’t know. And in present she is not with me. But I can never forget her because she was my first and last love.