do you know much about your lover?^^

cutie kiss^^ - girl is kissing boy she likes and he is shy^^
Portugal
October 28, 2010 9:09am CST
hi guys^^ do you know much about your lover?^^ like what is his favourite song, what is his favourite movie, what is his favourite colour^^ things like this^^ do you know?^^ about me i know my bf's idol^^ he shared with me few songs he likes^^ i know what kind of music he likes the most^^ but about his favourite movie i dont know yet^^ im not sure^^ but i know i love him and thats the most important^^ but sure that these things also matter^^ what about you guys?^^ do you know much about your lover?^^ please share^^
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• Philippines
29 Oct 10
I think you'll have a better relationship with someone whether with a lover or a friend if you know the person well. How could you build a rapport with that person if you don't know him/her that much. Through the things he/she likes you'll know his character. Be cautious because the person you're loving may not be really him but just an idea. I hope you get what I mean sweetie. Thank you.
• Portugal
29 Oct 10
i see what you mean nero^^ but i guess he is like he shows me bcs we been friends for a year almost before i accept be his gf^^ and he continues the same^^ also i talk with his sister too^^ she sometimes lend her cell for him to talk with me^^ i know that he loves me but the problem is if he loves me enough to make efforts to save money with me. thats the biggest problem
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
yes nero i question his love for me bcs of many reasons. one of the reasons is that he always has something to do. he is busy all the time. and i dont understand that. if he loved me he would find a way to contact me. friday morning i got up a 7 am to talk with him bcs that hour he can use his computer and he didnt come online. i remember that day before he said that maybe couldnt if his nephew wasnt sleeping. he always has something to do. i dont have a space in his life. and thats what i dont understand. if he loved me and needed me he would find a way. but he doesnt i cant understand him anymore. i understood all his promises and he didnt do and i forgave that and now is being too much already.. i cant take anymore. no girl would had take so much as i did. i messaged him and this time i will give him really one week to see what he wants. this time he will have one week without me to see if needs me or not. i wont take anymore that sometimes he has time and other times he acts like im nothing. i have feelings and im working hard to go see him and he doesnt value me enough
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
You always seem to question your boyfriend's love for you. It can be reflected on his actions, analyze it but don't easily jump into conclusion. I guess you really need much time to know your lover well. But it's quite difficult on your part since you're not really with him. Anyway, good luck!
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
I know my husband well enough. We've only been together for almost a year but I know him well. I know how he wants his eggs cooked, his coffee served, his sleeping habits. I know the smallest details as well as the big ones. I guess its because we take the time to talk about everything and anything under the sun.
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
thanks! my husband is the sensitive and sweet type. he's very noticing. He noticed my dimples when we first met. Even now, he knows what I love to eat. He knows when I'm not feeling good. He knows me well and I like it that way. I guess I got lucky. :-)
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
so cute^^ is great that your hubby is the sweet and sensitive type^^ he notices things about you, he knows what you like to eat and when you are sad^^ all girls would want a guy like that^^ you are right when you say that you are lucky^^ you really are^^ he is a great guy for what i can see^^ you must keep him well^^ also he is lucky that you love him^^
• Portugal
29 Oct 10
thats so cute that you know everything about him^^ yes i see that you really talk about everything^^ you know all the little details about him^^ thats cute and romantic^^ also the way you talk seems that he also knows the same about you right?^^ but we girls are usually more noticing little things so maybe you notice more than him but who knows^^
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@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
For for 4years, i think i already know everything about my bf. I try to bare it in mind everything about him so if i am being asked i can easily answer it. And as our relationship grows stronger, i learn to know him even better.
• Portugal
29 Oct 10
thats cute that you know all about him^^ sure 4 years is too much so for sure you know already almost everything about him^^ and for sure you can learn even more^^ the way you talk he really loves you so he wont leave you^^ so many years more you have to learn things about him ^^ just a little test ahah what is his favourite movie? his favourite song? his favourite animal? his mother's name? his best quality? his worst quality? ahah can you answer?^^ for sure you can^^ these are usually things that all girls know how to answer about their bfs^^ less me ahah i didnt meet my bf near so i dont know all all about him yet^^ like his mother's name but i know his two sisters names^^ his other sister i cant remember bcs he told me her name one time few times only^^
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
29 Oct 10
I do know alot and maybe everything about my ex bf. He's very opened to me and I'm the one whom took the initiative in the past relationship, therefore it's only normal for me to know more. When it comes to my present bf, sad to say, I don't know much about him except for a few of his interest. He does not like to be questioned and he can get edgy when I asked too much. One such example is me asking him why he loves love balleds so much. He said he like them because of the music and lyrics. When I probed further about meaning of those songs whether it reminds him of his ex gf, he starts to get a little irritated before telling me, don't associate everything to his past relationships. As such, I stopped asking too much since he doesn't like to go into details unless he shares it on his own.
• Portugal
29 Oct 10
yes^^ i guess that maybe your bf is a bit similar with mine^^ he answers all i ask him but he gets sad easily. mostly if i say something about break up. he also is not that he doesnt share much bcs he does the problem is that he isnt much showy about his feelings for me to other people you know. is like he wants only me to know that. and sometimes i wish he was more showy. even we are so far i dont know i see people saying i love you and friends can read that and he doesnt do that much you know. i guess is just their personalities that are not too showy but loves us^^
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28 Oct 10
i am single and so this doesn't apply to me.
• Portugal
28 Oct 10
you are still single?^^ i see. anyway maybe you should try to find a girl^^ you seem a good guy so im sure isnt hard to find a girl also that way you have more happy time^^ and that way you dont just work and take care of your son. that way you can also have romantic dinners^^ cute dates^^ why dont go for drinks with friends and meet new people?^^ you can find a good woman for sure^^
@ronald14 (35)
29 Oct 10
Hello. _
• Portugal
29 Oct 10
yes ronald sure that talk much will help me to find out more about my bf^^ we used to talk some hours a day before but now is so rare we live very far and have different schedules. anyway he is almost always busy with his things that sometimes we cant talk much really. sometimes i want to just give up bcs i feel im fighting but will end nothing in end. but i feel he is honest and loves me so i didnt leave him. i love him.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
28 Oct 10
We all like to think that we know our lover. We share so much with them. they enter a private world that we don't share with others. it would be comforting to know that we knew everything about our lover. still, that bit of mystery keeps us interested in them even more.
• Portugal
28 Oct 10
yes thats true that we cant know everything about them^^ but sure is good that some things we dont know yet^^ so we can find it out as long as we are more and more in love^^ i love my bf so much^^ and is ok if i dont know all about him^^ as long as he really loves me thats what matters^^ i really love him and all i want is go to meet him^^
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
29 Oct 10
I know his likes and dislikes, favourite movies, song, time to sleep, what wakes him up, food, drinks, I can tell his mood and what he wanted to say from his body language, what makes him angry, and what makes him happy. I know him a lot more, actually more than that. I also know that 5pm on Sunday is a must time for him to leave for football with his friends and he's always excited when I say I would follow and watch him playing. I also memorized his work schedule for the whole week hehe! And a lot more that quite secret
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
Well I know my husband's likes and dislike and when were just a young couple dating, I tried to find out everything including the brand of perfume he's wearing, the cellphone he's using, etc. I think when we love a person we try to be more attentive and sensitive to who they are and what they want in life.
• Portugal
28 Oct 10
yes i agree with you^^ thats true that when we are in love we always want to know everything^^ his favourite movies, his favourite songs^^ but me now i just want to go and see him soon^^ thats all i want^^ my bf is the best thing i have in this life^^ so i will fight for that^^ and about know more about him im sure i will as long as time pass^^