What will you do when you saw the ex of your partner?
By careguarden
@careguarden (5670)
Philippines
October 28, 2010 3:04pm CST
Well, for me , of course I will not talk to her because I know sometimes people have different attitude and I didn't trust them. Thats why. How about you?
6 responses
@torchablazed (3218)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
Funny, I had a dream of this last night where I was able to bump into my partner's ex haha, since I did not see the person personally. Perhaps I do the same reaction as what happened in my dream, first I stared at him long enough and he approaches me extends his hands and I do extend mine. Then I said an excuse I need to go somewhere for an appointment then never look back.
Lets just see though if what will happen if I bump the person for real.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
Hahaha. The ex of your partner was shocked that time. He never expect that you bumped him. I believe and agree those people like you that they refused to talk the ex of their partners because there are strange feeling which people felt and no time for talking. When I am in that situation, of course, I need to go fast and not looking back to avoid misunderstood.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead
Godbless
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
Hello beeh. We are the same attitude. Of course, we ignore the ex of our partner because I don't have time for them. and I have this feelings that she, is not good. just ignore that's all to avoid any situations that might happen which is we never expected.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead
Godbless
@joey_matthews (8354)
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28 Oct 10
I would just ignore them and pretend as if i haven't seen them, abit like if i see someone who i use to know at school or somewhere and arn't in contact with them anymore and don't want to be. I don't really talk to some of the people from school years ago as i've not been able to keep in touch with them.
@yellowhipon (793)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
My husband and I have been very open about our pasts since day 1. I know his exes and I'm even friends with 2 of them. Sometimes I do feel insecure because they're pretty too but my husband has always assured me that he loves me. And he's never given me any reason to doubt him. Besides, his exes have they're own lives now. They even congratulated us when I gave birth to our daughter. I've met one of his exes once or twice and she's been nothing but nice to me. I think its that comfortable for us all because she and my husband ended their relationship properly. No bitterness!
@ronald14 (35)
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29 Oct 10
For me, it depends. If he or she was the one to greet me, then I will greet her or him back. But if I will be the one to greet first, the answer is no. Besides, if it was just a greet of hello or hi, I can greet him or her. But if it was a long talk no way. Because I don't know what he/she is thinking why he/she is eager to talk to me. So it depends on the situation.
