your best friend

@laken02 (3067)
United States
October 28, 2010 6:42pm CST
your best friend and you have an arguement , over something stupid.. would you be the first to apologize or would you wait and let them call you ?
6 responses
@camposkat (310)
20 Nov 10
It depends on who started the argument. If I started it and have hurt my friend, then I would quickly try to patch things up between us. But even if it is her fault I'll still try to sort it out straight away. I don't want to let the day pass by without sorting the problem between the two of us.
@demoneko (168)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
It actually depends on the situation, but if you really are best friends, then you should approach him/her as soon as you are calm down and ready to talk your best friend. You can approach him/her to talk to you first. After talking about situation, then reconciliation will follow. :D
@hushi22 (4941)
29 Oct 10
it depends on the whole situation like what kind of argument and who was at the wrong situation. given the situation that my friend was on the wrong side and doesnt know how to listen rather take so much of the pride, i would prefer to give my friend a time to reflect and wait for him/her to realize his/her mistakes. i wont apologize first if there is nothing wrong i have done. if i do that he/she wont learn and will continue doing so.
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
If i used to apologize even it's not my fault, i will contact him and apologize for the last time. Then i will tell her about it, as best friend you should teach her to apologize too. I'd rather hurt my friends telling them the truth rather than telling them sweet things or spoil them. It will not help them to become a better person.
• United States
29 Oct 10
Usually I am one of the most stubborn people alive, but when it comes to my best friend I'm a big baby. I can't count how many times me and my bestie have gotten into arguments and didn't talk for a long time. Depending on the situation, things can normally be mended pretty quick. If I were u I would just tell my bestie we needed to talk about what happened. Just talk civilly and you both will end up apologizing. I hope this helped just a little :) CeeCee
@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
If it's my fault, I'll apologize first. But if she did it, I'll ignore her until she approach me. I don't easily forgive friends because it may look like I'm weak and they'll abuse my kindness.