Should i end the friendship?
By jharia20
@jharia20 (365)
Philippines
October 28, 2010 10:29pm CST
I have this friend at first we are okay i tell her my secrets. but now, i think i hate her, whenever i ask that we go out drink and go to bar, she always say no. She has a lots of stuff to do so i understand her. But now, i receive an sms telling that she got drunk and enjoy it damn!when i was the one asking she say no, but to other people she always say yes. should i end the friendship?please help me :(
4 responses
@shibham (16977)
• India
29 Oct 10
Hi jharia...
Be patient. There may be some reasons for which she is turning you down. She may be annoyed by you for her negatives, so better you need to find out the reasons. you may seek the help of a third person who knows both of you very well. Take care.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
29 Oct 10
I would personally say that it totally depends on how you value the relationship, but from what I can read your friendship with this person is one-sided. So may I recommend that at first chance when she is not drunk of course, that you let her know exactly how you feel and that you do not appreciate her avoiding you but then texting you later informing you of her great time.
Depends on how she reacts I guess you can make your decision then, as she may not be realizing that she is hurting you this way. However if she gets offended and of course she has no reason to then I am afraid you may have to allow some space and maybe that way she will value your true friendship later.
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
Actually she is doing this always, i and my other friends always ask her out but then she refuse to. i have this feeling of hate toward her and i told it to my other friends, they told me that they have also the same feelings as mine towards her. what should we do?
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
don't end the friendship just because a friend has turned you down, friendship is not just receiving nor giving, it's sharing and enjoying each other's company. If she's happy now with new friends, let her be while you enjoy your time, too with other activities. Once you have time for each time,then have fun and enjoy what you used to enjoy before!
