Have you been told you're not the kind of lover he's looking for?

@EdnaReyes (2628)
Philippines
October 28, 2010 10:57pm CST
I think the most painful thing to happen in two people sharing bed together is that you're not the kind of the lover he/she 's looking for. How you been told this and how did you feel about it?
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@sender621 (14956)
• United States
4 Nov 10
I think if someone admits this to you it is because they are dissatisfied with themselves. they may not even know what it is that they want in a lover. Don't take the burden of guilt on yourself. it is the other person who needs to come to terms.
@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
Ouch. Yeah, I have experienced this. 2 weeks ago he told me I wasn't the girl he was looking for. I cried a lot after that. But I am fine now. I don't need a guy to run my life. That's why I don't base my happiness from him and I choose my career.
• United States
29 Oct 10
I have thankfully never been told this, but I would hope if someone feels compelled to tell their lover that at least they are a bit subtle about it. As sometimes couples need to grow within the bed area and learn each others wants and needs. so hopefully anyone having experienced this was told in a nice way and or perhaps was also willing to learn other pleasing methods.