Never Ending Pre-Nuptial Dispute..
By visavis
@visavis (5934)
Philippines
October 30, 2010 9:41am CST
Do you experience this pre-nutial dispute? What is mean by pre-nuptial? Pre-nuptial is a pre marriage arrangement or arrangement before marriage occur which both parties (girl/boy) agree, the common agreement is about properties, financial status, bank account and others. If both parties agreed before marriage whatever positions they have would be separated or not included in their marriage. After marriage all they earned would be called conjugal property.
For you guys what affect in both side this pre-nuptial arrangement? Is it for better relationship or for worst. Is there any true love you can see if this arrangement is in between them? Share with us your thought and learn from your suggestion... see you around.
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
30 Oct 10
I was fortunate when i got married. there was never any talk of prenuptial agreements. Sometimes i think these agreements do more to destroy relationships than to make them better.2 people like this
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
Yes this kind of agreement will bring in one relationship into worst thing. Why? We did not avoid any argument in one relationship and for any argument all aspect of our life are involved which also the pre-nuptial agreement... see you around
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
hello friend,
My opinion regarding this matter is,it is always good to have each do's and don'ts before the marriage.
If i am a heiress and have a good sum of money in my account,protecting it doesn't mean that i don't trust my fiancee.
It's my right to protect my wealth,for my kids in every case.
And,if my husband to be also have his own pre-nuptial agreement,that would be fine for me too.
If the case is like this,i am poor and my fiancee is a rich man and he wants pre-nup agreement,i will respect that,he earned those wealth himself and worked for it.
But,the day we get married,whatever he earns i should be subjected to have the rights then.
Money versus love...what a cr*p but the real truth .
have a great weekend
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@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
Yes protecting money from the fruit of my labor that is the phrase you are telling. How you can trust your wife/husband if something in between your relationship. I think this is a big issue, I always remember in the bible said the man and woman leave their parents and go together and become ONE (married) to built their own family.. Meaning once you enter to marriage man/woman will give their full trust, love.. So any properties of both should be together also and become conjugal... see you around
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
31 Oct 10
Having a pre-nup would have saved Paul McCartney a lot of money!
