I don't want to be with you anymore!

@cryw0lf (1302)
United Kingdom
October 30, 2010 2:30pm CST
Do you ever just want to get away? I'm in a seriously controlling relationship at the moment, and I would walk out but I can't really, I am dependent on his money. (unfortunately) and currently study at a college. A part time job isn't going to supply enough money for me to survive alone. Does anyone have any suggestions of what to do?
4 responses
• Mexico
30 Oct 10
Hi cry w0lf: i think that you have to evaluate how you feel to take a decition. Sometimes I have felt like I would like to get away and end a relationship but in the end of the day I understand that there are more positive facts about this person and that I really love her and that I also know that she cares for me so this makes me think that even if we have problems we can go on. If you feel there's nothing positive on your relationship, the money shouldn't be a reason to keep working, specially if this hurts you. ALVARO
• Canada
30 Oct 10
It is really not good to use someone for his money. And that is what you have just said you are doing. I can see how you might think of it like "revenge" for his being controlling, but it's really not healthy for you to continue in this relationship, if it is like you have said. It is possible to work full time and study part time; I did it for three years because I needed to live away from my parents...the stress was killing me. Try to rent one room in a house, that will be far less expensive. Good luck with whatever you decide!
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
im sorry for your situation you shouldnt continue with him really :( if you are not happy anymore. anyway if you depend on his money you should try to start to send some curriculums to some places or try to find a part time job in your college^^ in some countries people can apply to work in colleges where they study. other thing you can do is try to create a movies blog^^ a movies blog can give you some good money^^
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
well that's too bad. In the first place you shouldn't have gone into that relationship when you all need is money only. I think you should find other extra work so you can stand alone. It is risky doing that you all need is money to him/her maybe someday they will get he will get back to you if you will continue doing this