Friends that have changed drastically

United States
November 2, 2010 1:32am CST
Wow , i never thought that id have a friend that would be a great person thats out going and innocent and ,treats you like a real friend . But after a while turns into something completly different. Just not the same anymore, Please tell me if you can relate to this.. i feel like its only happening to me
6 responses
@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
One year after high school graduation, I saw an old classmate of mine. Before she was so innocent looking. But now, it's the opposite. She has multiple piercing on her face. What the hell happened to her. Maybe she had some bad influence along the way.
@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
Oh yeah. I forgot to mention. She was drunk when I saw her. It was so funny.
• United States
2 Nov 10
Yea i can understand, my past friend like i said used to be great, but now she is a escort..it through me for a turn buddy , i couldnt believe it at all but yeal she is and when she saw me all she could think to say is ..." do youu wanna do wat i do" ...Yea i did not know her anymore after that..if she was the real person i met at first she would no i would never do anything like that! crazy i tell you
@chookie1971 (2277)
• Australia
3 Nov 10
I have a friend like this. For a few years, we were the best of friends. It has only been recently she had been introduced to another friend's ex partner. Since the ex has been hanging around my friend I have noticed changes. Things like, she would text me every day. Now she doesn't. Even picking me up in the afternoon to go and pick up our girls from school. She hasn't done that for the last few weeks. Other things I have noticed, he leaves clothes at her place and she wears them because she can smell him. She had told me that the guy has feelings for her. She hasn't admitted it but with what she has been doing, I think she may have feelings for this guy. What makes the situation worse, she is married with kids. If things keep going the way they are, I feel that her marriage could be on the rocks. this has all been going on for the last few months. So you are not alone. My friend has changed too. I don't really like the person she is turning into.
• United States
3 Nov 10
Me either, but i geuss thats the choices they wanna make and theyll see in the end that they were wrong!
@gablez (19)
• Malaysia
5 Nov 10
Hey, no worries, you are not alone. :) I am currently going through a depression mode because one of my friend changed drastically. I mean, I notice that I can do nothing about it and if I try to tell my friend what I think, my friend will think that I am trying to judge and she'll play a victim mode. which is so annoying. she is currently hang out with a bunch of other ppl. I actually have no objection with that. But the thing is, she'll say she miss me and all when the fact is, to see me is literally just like few steps away. She will call me only if she need anything from me. Like last night, she called me and pestering me because she wanted to borrow my killer heels. I was not in the mood and knowing her, she'll only return it when the heels are broken and can't be use anymore. so far she ruined 2 of my fave wedges. I've learned my lesson, no? The most painful thing is, its not easy to let go. haiz. i hate this feeling and i feel like i just wanna disapear from her world forever.. no worries dear, you are not alone. :)
@jugsjugs (13045)
2 Nov 10
I had a friend for years that i could trust,i would trust er with anything no matter what.Then one day i found out that she had changed and let me say she changed for te worst.Now i tend not to say anything to her at all,as that way she do not know anyting in order to say anything.
@puccagirl (7316)
• Israel
2 Nov 10
No, I think it happens to almost everyone. People change constantly over the course of their lives and sometimes this can be in a bad way, and sometimes in a good way. Unfortunately it can also affect friendships. It has happened to me several times, and it sucks, but I think it is part of life.
@visavis (5945)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
Do you believe in "nothing permanent here on earth"? Even relationship with a friends we cannot tell if it is forever, permanent or temporary. One thing only i know permanent is the love of God to us nothing else. Others like friend and other is like a wind blowing and you feel now then suddenly gone.. so go on select again another friends... see you around