When relationships ends..who to blame?Boy or girl?

@jharia20 (365)
Philippines
November 6, 2010 8:41am CST
when relationships ends..we don't know who or what to blame..we blame almost all the person and things and we blame the most is your partner..but what do you think?/in general cases you 's fault is breaking up??girl or boy??
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6 responses
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
i would say you can't generally pput the blame based on gender. it takes two to tango.. it takes two people to decide, to do things that would hurt the other... so when relationship ends.. it should be because one has done something to offed the other, or both chooses not to be with each other anymore.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
years ago, normally people would think of a man cheating... but lately you cannot really tell. everyone cheats, boy or girl, man or woman.. gay or bi. hehe =)
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
yeah i agree with you :)) but just a thought who blame the most??girl or boy??just based on your observations :)) thank you :))
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
i agree with you :)) yeah but i think it is boys..why??because i ma a girl and i don't want to be blame :)) just kidding :))
@Karunvig (714)
• India
6 Nov 10
Why to blame one of them, if both of them started one thing and now they are at end then both of them must have gareed on that and end up... If a team loses in a match (footbal or cricket), whole of the team is at stake not one single player.. same is with relationship, keeping all the ego at one side and love care at all the ends one should enter into a relationship... its not a horse ride, today black horse and tomorrow... Life is one, partners hard to find... dont blame either but both
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
Yeah i agree with you :) but a fire will not start if it doesn't have the cause right??just a thought in general who blame the most??
@Karunvig (714)
• India
6 Nov 10
early ages... when two stone were punched to each other then only fire was strike out.. doesnt matter which stone was up and which was down
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
yeah that's right :))
6 Nov 10
Theres no real answer to that because it could be either... not one or the other has been the fault to all relationships because everyones relationship is different. Both people can cheat, both people can cause arguments and both can just not get on as a couple and be better apart.
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
Yeah i know that :) but base on your observation who blame the most??:)
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
Commitment is vital in a relationship. If a couple put an end in a relationship, it is improper to just blame someone. Consideration of every aspect must be analyze and communicated with both parties. If you blame the boy, are you sure that you don't have even a single flaw in that relationship? Are you sure that the boy doesn't have a single doubt in mind that it is you who to blamle? Relationship is a two way process, you have to take your part as well as the other person responsibility to take his. If you're hundred percent sure that you did not even commit mistakes, that's only when you have the right to blame whoever or whatever.
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
Yeah i agree with you..but just a thought..in general cases. who is the most blame??boy or girl??:)
@beeh13u (1038)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
It's not on the gender my friend but often we blame it on the boys. LOL It depends upon the reason for the break-up. If someone cheated, then it is obviously their fault. But it's hard to pinpoint the blame. Couples are the ones who knew the relationship, it's their opinion that is to believe. The one that ended the relationship isn't the one to blame.
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
I love it :)) not into gender but you say boys??haha LOL..yeah it depends on the situation..but in general who blame the most??hehe :))
• Latvia
7 Nov 10
mmm actualy in all my relations ships we always talk about everything - and we still friends. I advice - just talk to each oter. And dont need to blame nobody. NEED to grow up and life will be wonderful
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
I agree :))