What would be a good way to.....

@Outcast (633)
United States
November 6, 2010 5:00pm CST
tell your spouse that you are pregnant? I am searching was to tell him but havent found a good way to tell him yet. I am scared to though. He did tell me awhile back that he didnt want anymore kids. And I am affraid when I tell him he will want to leave. What to do?
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@Suggar (3612)
• Bulgaria
6 Nov 10
Wow, how many kids you got? Children are something so sweet and good, but may be he can't afford caring for more than you both got for now. I think that you can tell him anytime, because it's not only you, but he was in the situation with making a baby, so you have to choose what to do together.
@Outcast (633)
• United States
7 Nov 10
we only have one.
• India
20 Nov 10
Welcome to mylot friend Well you are already pregnant, this can't be hidden for long, the belly will bulge, so tell him , seeing a good time, when he is in good mood, i am sure he is not going to leave you.. Thank you so much for sharing. Professor. . Cheers have a great day ahead. God bless you. Welcome always.
@maximax8 (28247)
• United Kingdom
9 Nov 10
You might like to say that you were feeling quite unwell and worried about yourself. You thought it could have been something serious but luckily wasn't. Then you could say that you did a pregnancy test to put your mind at rest. Next you could mention that you were surprised to see it was positive. Lastly you could say that you are over the moon that your child is going to have a little baby brother or sister. You could say that the baby you are having is a lovely surprise and that you wasn't planed. Your child won't be an only child now. Good luck telling your spouse that you are pregnant.
@natnickeep (2340)
• United States
6 Nov 10
Well if it's something he is not going to be happy about I am sorry for you. But I am sure once you start showing and it kicks and then you have it, things will be all a different story. Men are happy to reproduce no matter if they want to take care of more kids or not. A good way to tell him might be to bring out one of your other children's baby things and say, well we are going to be needing this again soon.