How to justify you actions in a convincing way?
By mayrah
@mayrah (1144)
United States
November 10, 2010 11:25am CST
In our day to day life. We gain so many experiences and learn from this experiences. There times that our actions come back to us in negative way, and there are also time when our good action come back t us in positive. If you do good thing to other people, they will be grateful to you and time will come they will also extend help once you are in need. But what if you have done something you think right but you cannot make other people convinced. What if you have done this things because you out of you good motive and you never realized that somehow it might make other people think otherwise? How will you prove to them in a more convincing way that your actions are right and you did that for good motive? Sometimes it's true that the truth hurts,and while all you want is to protect important person in you life from being cheated. You just tell him the truth and in return he fight back with you. How will you act in this way? For me If I know I was right I will stand firmly with all thing Ive done and said. I will just tell him, did this things to protect you, because you are important to me.If until now you can't believe me, its up to you to decide. This is the only thing I will say. How about in your opinion, how do you justify your actions in more convincing way?
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@wiggles18 (2506)
• Canada
10 Nov 10
I just tell the truth, lying takes way to much effort; you've got to convince people, make sure loose ends don't come undone, you may have different stories for different people: it just makes me exhausted to do all that stuff.:D
@chuyins123 (2112)
• Philippines
30 Nov 10
I have been in that situation, a friend asked me as to what is my opinion about the girl he loves, I first thought to myself that if I would tell him the truth he might get hurt. But instead of giving him the answer right away, I told him, "hey, the next words you'd hear from me, would most probably hurt you, still I'd want to let you know all this because only true friends can be cruelly honest, and I am telling you I am cruel because I am true."
Then I started telling him my opinion on her, told him that I don't see any certainty of her falling for him, she might just be a sweet pretty lady not wanting to hurt someone, so she's letting him love and care for her, but she have no intentions of going to the next level, and that I think they aren't gonna be more than friends. I know that the girl is not so into him. I know I'd hurt him, but I still and actually told him all those things, he was silent for quite a time, and said "yeah, you could be right" but he didn't stop chasing her, till the last minute he's been here in the country. When he left, he was broke, because he realized, I was right, and check the facebook status with the girl, in a relationship with other guy, with pictures on photo albums that are so sweet. I was like "told you so" mode, but told him, move on, she's just really not so into you...
Again, if you truly care, then you could be cruelly, honest, you need not justify it, the person should know, how much you value him or her.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
25 Nov 10
Hello, for leading a sucessful life, carrer, planning in advance is a must, this i think is 'action',if one cant do himself, he can take help of some body in home or consult a counseller, it helps..
I am 65 now, well experienced about the family, friends, i always think that, my actions are right, though i don't like to impose them on any body lol
Thank you so much for this discussion.
Professor. . Cheers have a lucky day ahead.
God bless you. Welcome always.
