your lover or family?

@asliah (11149)
Philippines
November 12, 2010 8:33pm CST
what will you choose to them, your lover or your family?will you sacrifice your lover because of your family or sacrifice your family because of your lover, sometimes our family, such our mother and father dont want our lover, will you disobey your parents?what will you do with this situation?
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6 responses
@tylerlou (67)
• United States
14 Nov 10
I would choose my Love because when it all comes down to it, I know she will be there for me better than my family would. The only reason I didn't choose my family was because my family is so full of drama and the relationships are not good and I grew up not liking a lot of my family..
@free_man (7337)
• United States
13 Nov 10
Hi Asliah. It is never wise not to listen to your parents. Your mother and father may see something that your young eyes can't see because love is blind sometimes. Pray about it and ask God to guide you through your life.
@harry89 (2332)
• India
13 Nov 10
Well, i will choose my family as they are the one with whom i spend most of my life and they are the one who were always with me in every situation good or bad. Whereas a lover comes in our life in our second stage of life and we haven't spent much time with them. So we can't understand them easily. So i will go with my family. Happy mylotting. Regards, harry.
@ipenk1000 (207)
• Indonesia
13 Nov 10
if still going out,iwould choose family
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
13 Nov 10
Family matters. You can't replaced them as much as you can with the lover.
@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
13 Nov 10
My family. They sacrificed a lot for me. Lover is only temporary. He/she may leave you behind as what he did to me. That's why I will always stick to my family even if they hurt me.