Have you ever had romantic feelings for a friend's lover?
By foofermen
@foofermen (500)
November 15, 2010 1:30pm CST
This can be a friend's boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife.
When I was younger, my friend had a girlfriend and I became infatuated with her almost immediately. I was just young and full of hormones, but at the time, I seriously thought I loved this girl, and for all intensive purposes I did! I would hang out with them all the time, and found out that her and I had much in common but still, she was my buddy's girlfriend, so I just let it go. We ended up together years later but it was a short lived, sorry excuse for a relationship.
So,
Have you ever coveted thy neighbor's lover?
What did you do?
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4 responses
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
15 Nov 10
Thankfully, i have never had to be in the position to have romantic feelings for a friend's lover. It would certainly be an akward situation and put a strain on the relationship between friends. i hope i never have to find myself in such a place. I would like my romantic feelings to go to someone unattached.1 person likes this
@foofermen (500)
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15 Nov 10
Oh god! Awkward is an understatement! lol I hope you never have to be in that position too. The thing that sucks worse of all, is the fact that she was not a good catch.
@mollu2508 (47)
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16 Nov 10
yes..! I've experienced this matter twice first 9th std & next in college life, but effected one is the college life's incident. more or less i fall in love with one of my best friend's lover. but after sometime when i get back my real love i faced a misunderstanding & i feel it what ever I'm doing is wrong & i step back from it.. :)
@nirvik12345 (66)
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16 Nov 10
Yes dud. Reality is very much tough. Face it. I think your continuous relation ship effected about that incident. So, think before do anything. It will help you to take decision.
@nirvik12345 (66)
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16 Nov 10
In few days ago. My friend tell me to help him for creating a relationship. He loved a girl. But in this time their relationship is turned bad. I did friendship with her. After few days, she always touched with me and i have feelings about her. But, then i think that is very bad. So, i quit it. And help them for patch-up.
