Are you a prioty or just and option?

Philippines
November 16, 2010 2:24am CST
I do have a relatioship before but, it didn't go well....for me she was my first partner, and i dream big and for our future. But sad to say she's married, and i didn't knew a thing, i did accept her love, because im so much inlove with her, eventthough im just an option. In such times we quarrel and but yet still it the love that im having or just to accompany her, because her husband is not always there for her....but i did accept one thing in life.....total idiot. And we did break up....since then i found someone that i could offer my life with and im so happy i found her cheer~ And that's make me a priority to her. Anyone wants to share like mine?
4 responses
@hushi22 (4928)
16 Nov 10
i am so happy right now with my relationship. i have never asked this to myself or to him. it is very obvious how prioritized i am by my bf. i feel sorry to hear your kind of story pal. but i know there are a lot of people with the same situation.
@chinkai28 (114)
• Philippines
16 Nov 10
I'm not sure if I am just an option or the priority...At times I want to feel that I am the priority but seems not, yet I still make myself believe that I am a "priority". Love really can make people act like an idiot...
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
16 Nov 10
welcome to the wonderful world of mylot. i am very happy for you that you are now a priority and no longer an option. that is what you are worth of. i am a priority too. never wanted to be in a relationship that i am only an option. now that we are married for 8 years i can say that i am sometimes an option but i understand that very well for we have a four year old son that needs to be take cared of. so its okay. we also get our us time but its okay for me if sometimes i am an option for the reason is our son.
• Philippines
16 Nov 10
its a good thing you finally found the one for you :) I was an option before, but now I know I finally have the man destined for me :)