After a breakup...

November 17, 2010 11:26pm CST
I know you guys had been through a lot but Do you love/hate your girlfriend or boyfriend?
2 responses
Jotomy
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
18 Nov 10
Hi balutzky, welcome to mylot. If you really love a person we never try to hate them. We may get angry on them not hate. Why people want to break their relationship i should not understand. If they are not interested on us just leave to them but i know we never stop loving them. Have a good day.
balutzky
@balutzky (4)
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19 Nov 10
I know people may think that its crazy that you break up with someone you love but its the best thing you can do but why do you still have this gutt feeling that you hate them? Why does it exist?
frenzylady
@frenzylady (518)
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
Hello balutzky! After a breakup, I normally do not hate my bf. Actually, with all my past relationships, I was the one who broke up with them. Some I no longer love but I do not hate them at all, some I still love but I have to break up with them due to unwanted circumstances. I think all of us will eventually encounter these experiences, however, we can learn with the situations as well. Then, go on and face life with head held high.. Cheers!
balutzky
@balutzky (4)
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19 Nov 10
For me there maybe I have thoughts of "regrets" for my last relationship but its ok since I learned from it. Some people say that love can turn to hate.. Because you invested a lot on it and still it ended up into NOTHING. I know women have the power to do the "break up" thing what if the guy didn't get what you said that you needed TIME FOR YOURSELF?