he wont let me go....

Philippines
November 20, 2010 12:59am CST
I want to break up with my boyfriend, but he just wont let me go... Is it selfishness in his part?
1 person likes this
5 responses
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
5 Feb 11
Hi dear, It is some kind of luck and not all people are blessed with this way. As long as he love and he wishes your presence, why want you to leave him. Also, once you got interested with someone and he don't care about you, then?? So if he his good enough/handsome and a likable person, go for him, he will take care of you. But if he just want to 'use', better to leave him. But if he wishes from his mind and for ever, he is the man for you, no need to look for a change. Thank-s
@sophia18 (106)
• China
21 Nov 10
I suggest that you should think carefully about your relationship.What happened that makes you want to leave? There must be something wrong,but who's fault it is?Is there anything to do to remedy your love? If you really can't hold on to your love,tell him you have made a firm decision.Remember you have to say it resolutely.It may make him sad but afterall he will understand.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
20 Nov 10
hi.. why would you liker to leave him in the first place? Is it because you found a new love? well, most of the time, its never easy to let go of someone you really love. but we have to accept the fact that not all bf/gf relationship last long unless they decide to get married and be together for the whole life time. maybe you just have to explain the situation to him. Of course he will be hurt but he will soon recover and find a new love.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
20 Nov 10
I don't think he is being selfish. He just doesn't want to lose you. he wants you to be a part of his life even if you no longer want him in your life. finding a gentle and loving way to show him you don't want a relationship with him anymore is the best thing you can do for both of you.
@formidexo (1351)
• Canada
21 Nov 10
If you really are not happy in the relationship and you have clearly explained your feelings to him then he has a serious problem. But if you haven't made things clear to him then he is hoping that you are not serious about breaking up the relationship. I can't say much more from the brief statement you have made. I hope things will work out for you.