Is she interested?

India
November 22, 2010 1:03am CST
How do you know if a girl is really interested in you? What are the signs one should look for, to know whether she is really interested or just flirting?
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@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
When she is interested, she keeps the flow of conversation between you both. That's definitely the perfect sign to look for. She maintains eye contact too. I wasn't really into this certain guy. I don't reply to his messages online or through text. I just don't want him to fall in love deeply and think there's a chance for us to be together. To make sure the girl likes you, ask her directly. LOL
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• India
22 Nov 10
Thanks for the reply, beeh13u. Is there anything I can do to confirm it? These things which you have mentioned are very general and I tend to get confused. As far as directly asking a girl is concerned, I feel there are other better ways of dieing . Tell me what a superman used to have daily in breakfast, I will also have the same food and then may be I will be able to ....
@Andyvil (793)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
I think the simplest way of knowing is to ask her out. If she refuses then just be prepared and accept it. If she goes out with you and seems responses to your conversations than there might be a chance that she likes you. After you asked her out try asking her out again if that person doesn't like you she wouldn't go out with you for the second time unless if she is only using you or you didn't give her any signals that you also like her.
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• India
23 Nov 10
Yeah, everyone has suggested approximately the same thing, it seems tough but I feel that there is no shortcut, let us hope everything goes well. Thanks for your response, Andyvil.
@annawen86 (547)
• Indonesia
23 Nov 10
if a girl is interested in you, she will be so care to you. and will try to make you happy, by giving attention and surprise. and also, always at your side when you get a difficult problem. if she is just flirting, she doesnt care about your problem, and only try to attract you without care about you deeply
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• India
23 Nov 10
Very true and easy to understand. Thanks for your response, annawen86.
@Xansus (950)
• Bulgaria
22 Nov 10
These thing you got to solve yourself :) If she got interest in you in time you will get to ask , and you will get your unswer . You can never be sure , these things are never easy and not smooth . Still people here provide you with some clues , but at the end you get to face it . But i don't think flirting person will stick around for long time and being interested that much .
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• India
22 Nov 10
Actually, you have answered my question to some extent, Yes, if she is persistent then I feel I certainly have a chance and in that situation, it will be easier for me to ask her. Thanks for the response, Xansus.
@BART78 (2932)
• Canada
22 Nov 10
for me there are three signs you need to know if she's interested with you: 1. she is interested to have your number, email, invite you in her facebook or any social networking sites. 2. she makes a lot of excuse to other people just to hang with you. 3. she get jealous or pisst off when you talking to other girl.. ...look for this three simple signs
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• India
22 Nov 10
Thanks for the response, BART78. I would certainly try to look for these signs.
• China
26 Nov 10
Try to sit very close to her, if she does not reject and happy with that, that means she very probably likes you.
• India
28 Nov 10
Actually, she has asked me to sit with her a couple of times. Still, I will wait to make sure that everything is okay and then only I will ask her. Thanks for your response!
@Fireheart (683)
• India
22 Nov 10
If he or she is interested, they will surely make any eye contact and if you speak with them they would continue the conversation, and smile can be also taken as a sign, signs of flirting can be tracked easily when the person says something that even you wouldnt thought of, something out of the blue, mainly these things are found when a person is interested in you.
• India
22 Nov 10
Thanks for the response, Fireheart. She does make an eye contact and Yes, she smiles a lot now-a-days. That's the reason, I thought of asking you people. Within a last few months, I have noticed that she smiles for whatever I have to say and that is making me think like this.